Date men from United States / California / Paso Robles, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from Paso Robles, United States. I work a lot & it causes me to travel quite a bit. So I don't have the free time to really meet anyone, hence trying to find the one...by online dating. Now let me get to it.I am a diamond in the rough & a rough diamond. Under this hard exterior, there is a hopeless romantic. I'll be honest, what captures me at first is beautiful eyes. What will keep me is what I find behind them, I would hope to find intelligence, character, moral fiber,honesty, affection, humor, kindness, strength, ambition to name a few and eventually... love and romance. Did I mention humor??? very important. I'm here looking for something genuine and of substance. I hope you enjoy music, because I'm always singing. You will know my mood by the song i sing. lol! I also enjoy sports, both playing and watching. As well as classic cars, jet boats, lake sports and 4x4ing. It's hard to find a woman who enjoys the same, so if you do it is most definately a plus, but not a requirement. Someone who walks through life with an open mind & faces each day with optomism & positivity. All these things I will give to you in return. I believe its the little things one does that truly matter most in a healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to come home to flowers & dinner waiting for you completed with a movie and cuddle time. But don't be upset if you've tripped over parts from my latest project laying around in the garage. Lol! You must be secure with yourself & realize that it is healthy to have your own independence as well. My match will get this, she will know that we want to spend our time together, but we don't need to trip over one another. I will understand when you need to do things with your friends & have breathing room. I don't do jealousy. I'm am a man of many layers, yet simple. I will marry my best friend. Chemistry & emotional stability are most important. Financial and material possesions can be gained by two people simply setting & achieving goals "together". If I am someone you might like to get to know, don't hesitate to let me know. The bottom line is, my hellraising days are done & I've begun the second half of my life....and would like to have someone to share the experiences with