Date men from United States / California / South San Francisco, 40 year old

Date someone special from South San Francisco, United States. I am an outgoing, active, adventurous, spontaneous, easy going, family-oriented and enthusiastic person with a great sense of humor. Definitely a people person.
I've been told I am charming, friendly and funny. I am sort of a geek but with a bad boy side. Think Vin Diesel on the outside and Sheldon Cooper on the inside. Lol. I get told regularly that I look alot younger than my age. Must be the Asian in me.. :o) I'm pretty much a laid back guy for the most part but I do have a wild side and can be a little rough around the edges at times. If I'm in one of those moods, I'm definitely having a good time, never a dull moment with me! :o)
I am pretty organized at home and at work but don't worry, I'm not OCD organized. Lol. Like I said, I'm pretty laid back so I'm not bothered easily. I am very responsible, a very genuine person and respectful of others. I tend to stay on the positive side of life. The glass is always half full with me. Life has its highs and lows but it's all about how you take it! We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them. Unhappiness does not arise from the way things are, but rather from the difference in the way THINGS ARE and the way WE BELIEVE THINGS should be. Think about that...
I can be very health conscious. I value my health. I love to work out, eat healthy and stay active. :o) Although I love eating amazing foods, Monday-Fri I tend to eat pretty healthy and simple. I tend to eat what I want on the weekend though. I am quite the foodie and I love to cook and bake. Love trying new restaurants and new foods. The city is full of places, Let's explore them together!
I am looking for someone to share my life with, someone who will complement my life. I am looking for a serious relationship. No flings or mind games here. I'm not looking for a hook up. I can fairly easily do that at a bar. Did I mention I'm modest? Lol. But seriously, that's not what I'm here for... Serial Daters: Click the "Back" button.
I have been blessed and been quite lucky in life. I have everything I can ask for and am 99% happy with my life. I have an awesome job, friends, family. I'm just missing that special someone. I consider myself honest, considerate, thoughtful, romantic, affectionate and extremely loyal.
I've learned that you get out of a relationship what you put into it and that managing an intimate relationship takes some effort and both must be willing to put in the work but it really starts within. You can never have control of another persons ACTIONS but you always (should) have control over your REACTIONS. We all experience conflict in our relationships. I think its important to control your reactions and seek to understand then to resolve conflict rather than seek to be right. I am a great communicator and I believe excellent communication and compromise are key in any relationship whether it be with your parents, siblings, boss, coworkers and especially your sig other.
Feel free to send me an e-mail if anything here sparks your interest!
Good luck and Happy Matching!

Meet a soulmate from South San Francisco, United States. Looking for someone to have fun with,get to know and see what happens and where it leads.That special someone should like anything from sporting events,concerts,movies to staying home having dinner and watching tv.