Date men from United States / California / Capitola, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Me:
I am the Produce Manager/Buyer for a natural foods store and I run a small business building custom steel bicycles. I love to cook and go out to nice restuarants. I play guitar, bass and drums and record my own music. I've been in several bands in the past. I ride my bicycle for fun, exercise and commuting almost every day of the week. I'm addicted to reading sci-fi, crime, historical fiction and biographies. I backpack as much as I can in spring and summer. Musicians/bands I like include Sabbath, Iron Maiden, Misfits, Reagan Youth, early TSOL, Samhain, Joy Division,Oscar Peterson, Joe Pass, Cash, Slayer, Black Flag, Germs, Kyuss, Unida, The Sword, AC/DC and Conflict. I listen to Coast to Coast AM. TV shows I like: Dexter, Tim and Eric Awesome Show Great Job, Survivor, Game of Thrones and UFC. Favorite authors include George RR Martin, Iain M Banks, Augusten Burroughs, Bukowski, Connelly, Michener and Toole. Movies that I could watch over and over: Star Wars, Texas Chainsaw Massacre, THX-1138, The Warriors and Mad Max. I don't take myself too seriously. I'm calm, patient and don't have a temper. I'm kind of silly. I like to laugh and I'm a bit of a nerd.
You:
Tough but Feminine. Like physical exersion but able to kick back and be mellow. No criers or drama queens. You like alot of the same things I do but your not the female version of myself. I like differences so I can discover new things. You don't spend alot of time everyday on your clothes/makeup but can look sexy when you need to.