Date men from United States / California / Trabuco Canyon, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from Trabuco Canyon, United States. I have to live with myself and so
I want to be fit for myself to know,
I want to be able as days go by,
To look at myself straight in the eye.
I don't want to stand with the setting sun
And hate myself for the things I've done.
I don't want to hide on a closet shelf
A lot of secrets about myself,
And fool myself as I come and go
Into thinking that nobody else will know
What kind of man I really am;
I don't want to dress myself in sham.
I want to go with my head erect,
I want to deserve all men's respect
And in this struggle for fame and pelf
I want to be able to like myself.
I don't want to look at myself and know
That I am a bluster and empty show.
I cannot hide myself from me;
I can see what others can never see;
I know what others can never know,
I cannot fool myself, and so
Whatever happens, I want to be
Self-respecting and conscience free.

Meet single man from Trabuco Canyon, United States. While I'm sure every guy on here says they are all pretty normal, I'm not. I love to be outdoors and camp, hike, rock climb, whatever. Travel by car, foot, bike (though not so much over the last few years), or plane. I'm comfortable relaxing at home or jumping in a car and checking something new out that we heard of 5 min ago. I am the type of person that enjoys just about anything as long as I have good company and someone to laugh with. I am comfortable in just about any situation. I couldn't care less about designer cloths and prefer whatever fits and looks decent. I have a 17 month old daughter who I love to death, a dog who fears her own shadow, and a great family who I talk to regularly. I work out about 3-4 times a week (sometimes more if you count hiking or diving on the weekends...never thought scuba was exercise till I had to lug 90 lbs of wet gear out of the water and back to the truck...lol).
I'm looking for someone who is relatively local (in or around OC) and down to earth. Someone to share things with that I like to do while I share things she likes to do with her. I need someone who isn't afraid to communicate with me or challenge me. I am typically sarcastic and cracking lots of jokes to make my partner and everyone smile. I have a laundry list of hobbies and a longer list of things I haven't tried yet but want to.
Things I definitely want: A partner who likes to travel, someone who is fine with trying new things, exploring new places, and breaking out of her comfort zone on occasion. Someone who doesn't mind a road trip up the coast to Yosemite or out to the grand canyon just for fun. Someone who is perfectly fine planning a trip to somewhere we've never been and just seeing where things take us (I usually check out a few things to do but I certainly don't plan every minute or every day). I don't do well with shoppers of designer stuff since I prefer to spend the money on travel and fun over "stuff" any day. Basically, I need my partner to be adventurous and not a couch potato every day of the week (rainy days are the exception....fire and couch are preferred on rainy days). I need someone who can laugh at her mistakes or mine and simply likes to have fun and enjoy life to its fullest. So, if you are an outdoor type of girl, or just the type that loves to get out of the house and explore...we'll definitely have fun.