Date men from United States / California / Lakewood, 40 year old

Date a man from Lakewood, United States. I'm that really laid back guy that will jump off the couch in a hot second to go do something with his friends, but I am also that guy that would do anything for his woman including telling his friends "no - not tonight, i'm spending time with my lady". You know that guy...we all have friends like that. I am filled with energy most of the time and I am looking for someone who can keep up with me. I like outdoor activities, so I am looking for a girl who is not affraid to just be one of the guys every now and again but also likes to dress up and be a lady at the appropriate times....I am a very affectionate person with the right person. If I were to rank a womans qualities that I am most interested in from hightest to lowest it would be:
1. Honest - deal breaker ....I will not put up with dishonesty
2. Physical Attraction - c'mon....you know I have to be attracted to you to go any farther...but we can still be friends otherwise.
3. humor (personality) - Sorry, but if you dont have a sense of humor, you are NOT for me....
4. affectionate - I want a woman that will show me that she wants and desires me as much as I want and desire her...
5. independent - I dont want to raise anymore children... know who you are and be proud...
6. Respect - If you care about the person you are with.. respect them, it goes a long way....
If you have these traits...then we should talk.
Oh and about the drama...no thanks....already had enough of that to last a lifetime.. I am an honest person with realistic expectations of a relationship. I am willing to put in the work...Are you?
There is plenty of time to get to know me....All ya gotta do is reach out.... I hope to talk to you soon.

Meet single man from Lakewood, United States. I am a man who cares about people, families, friends and more. I came to this country 20 years ago and since i have had the idea to help people one way or another. My family raise me that way. Am from Mexico and very proud to be.

Date someone special from Lakewood, United States. About Me:
I have a very easygoing personality. I'm extremely optimistic and I have a good sense of humor. I rarely get angry or bent out of shape over things because life is just too awesome to worry about the little bumps in the road. I love intelligent conversation. When I'm with the right person, I can talk until the wee hours of the morning. I love the afterglow of a good conversation with someone I care about. I'm a hopeless romantic. I still get a wild thrill from just holding hands with the one I love. I am very affectionate and I show how much I care by doing the little things like making a romantic dinner, taking care of a household chore that has been bugging you, opening doors, surprising you with flowers unexpectedly. I'm a passionate person as well. I love to cuddle, to touch and to kiss like we're teenagers. If we're in love, I won't be able to keep my hands off you. You'll never have to guess how I'm feeling because i'm very open and communicative about everything...and I do mean EVERYTHING!
I love reading books and watching movies. I am a big baseball fan and love going to Dodger Stadium. I also love a good musical or play. I've seen Phantom of the Opera 7 times and Les Miserables 6 times. I'm not afraid to cry but am still a strong assertive man. I keep my hair relatively short but let my facial hair grow out for a couple days in between shaves. (If we're going out, I will always clean up nice for you!)
I love to travel, whether it's a simple road trip, a cruise or a 2-3 week trip to Europe, I am totally up for all of it! I also absolutely dig going to new restaurants whether they be fancy places or plain old dives. Some of the best places are just holes in the wall but great experiences with delicious food! And, if you're with me then any place is perfect!
I have 3 children but 2 of them are adults at this point. My youngest is almost 3 and I have him a little less than half of the time. I have a good job that I've been at for almost 15 years and have a decent amount of free time to devote to the woman of my dreams!
Most of all, I'm just a laid back passionate intellectual guy who loves to laugh and enjoy life.
Who I'm looking for:
The woman I'm looking for needs to have a good sense of humor first and foremost. If you're super serious all the time, we'll probably not be a good match. You need to enjoy intellectual conversation. I enjoy learning and talking about a great many areas of life so you don't necessarily have to be into the same things I am into but at least bring your own interesting insights and experiences into the relationship!
I also need someone who is comfortable with showing affection. If you hate kissing or don't want to hold hands...(well, I can't really imagine that anybody is like that, right?) Seriously though, if you're not comfortable with affection or with sex (not that we're quite there yet lol!) then we'll probably not be a match.
I'm also looking for a good balance of relaxation and activity. I do love going out and seeing things and experiencing the world but I also enjoy downtime just cuddling up and watching TV or movies and reading a good book. Sometimes staying at home with a glass of wine and just sharing downtime together can be way better than filling up our days with activities.
Mostly I think what I'm looking for may be you? Let's find out together!
**Adding this to help clear up a couple of things that may be "deal-breakers"
I need intellectual stimulation from the person I'm with. This isn't meant to be snobby or elitist and lord knows, I can say and/or do stupid things as much as anyone, but if you can't put a few cogent sentences together then please do us both a favor and move on to someone else. If you can't hold a decent conversation and are filled only with vapid nonsense, please move on. No matter how hot you look in a bikini, I will need to be attracted to your mind first.

Meet a soulmate from Lakewood, United States. team player not selfish. be faithful respect for others.out going enjoy outdoors. do what ever it takes to make each other happy. love sex an be very sexual. like family, good morals no smokeing or drugs.

Date a man from California, United States. Ideal match?
- Open to new experiences in life.
- Someone who is open and honest, no matter how sensitive the subject matter.
My friends would describe me as caring, honest, supportive, intelligent, goofy at times, serious yet relaxed. I've been characterized in many different ways.....you'll have to find out yourself.
More to come on this profile...

Meet single man from California, United States. If you want to read the whole thing, fine but to resume,
I just want a woman with a good heart.
ME
I am a person with good manners and easy going charm to prove it.
I enjoy to get to know people from other cultures. I graduated in Systems Engineering.
I am open for a friendship to start with and the time, destiny and we together will decide the future.
There are more things that you will get to know later. So, I hope to see an email from you. I love photography. I wish I can work for National Geographic and take pictures of this beautiful state with a special woman next to me.
I am from Bogot'a - Colombia.
I have been in USA for more than 11 years.
I work in the Information Technology area.
I have been on and off with match.com and not luck, do not why... I like to express what I feel at the moment.
A phone call in the morning to say "good morning" or a txt message to say "thinking about you" I am very passionate for what I like, my career, my photography, my girlfriend.
I like to watch foreign movies: Indian, Colombian, etc, etc.
I would to explore the beauty of this state Colorado. For example, camping on the Great Sand Dunes either in summer or winter, Mohab, snowshoe Horsetooth Mountain.
You might have been already there but why not be with me again.
I am not a bar/club guy but once in a while I like to experience the club scene.
I am all terrain guy, I can have dinner in a fancy restaurant or have dinner in the shop right here in the corner as long as the food is good. Or, I can stay in a 5 star hotel and also stay in a hostel as long as is clean and good bed.
I hope I can find some one who likes to adventure/ride with me through La Vida.
I have a young spirit.
I am always up for good conversation.
I believe honesty and communication to be important in any relationship.
I am planning to start my Master in IT Management in July 2012
YOU:
What I appreciate in a woman is her uniqueness, honesty, kindness and sensuality.
A woman who is interested to get to know me as a person and little bit of my roots, Colombia.
A sense of humor would be nice but do not want a comedian.
A woman with purposes in life, someone who wants to explore and try new things, going out to the movies, eating out in a multicultural restaurant, dancing, hiking but not like a pro, camping or just staying at home together and watching a movie.
A woman who challenges me mentally and spiritually and with whom I can freely communicate and express my thoughts.
A woman who enjoys the outdoor activities and want to to explore the nature and the beauty of Colorado state.
A woman who enjoys spending quality time with their family once in a while would be nice
A woman who can understands my goals I want to achieve either professional or personal.
A woman who is a little bit sophisticated and passionate.
CONCLUSION:
She needs to be attractive
I want to be loved for who I am, not what I can provide
For me, physical affection is essential
She has to get my jokes and sense of humor
My next girlfriend has got to be straightforward and patient
If you feel you are the one then drop me a message.
Hope to hear from you.
Chao,G

Date someone special from California, United States. The Narrative
Stats: 155-159 pounds; 5' 8.5'' tall. I've been athletic and very well toned my entire life - not one pound wasted. Well, maybe one.
I am originally from the northeast USA - an easy going NYC/NJ-metro Kid; but reserving the right to deter the nonsense and indifference of today's apathetic sterile thought mongers. I like folks with big views, deep experience, thoughtful opinions, and small propensities for presuppositional debauchery and anger.
I'm a nerd: but in that old school cool way, before nerds were actually considered cool, but were all along.
I'm versatile: You can dress me up and take me anywhere as I adapt well to all situations, and can converse profoundly on just about any topic. I can hold my own at cocktail parties, board meetings, poetry readings, bowling allies, dive bars to a fortnight of camping in isolation.
In Action: I wrestled for 15 years (from age 8 on) before realizing that snow fell in the winter season and was good thing!; and then quickly converted to a snowboarder. I love baseball - deeply (I coach little league, and play), ...and the fore-mentioned "Kid" attribute is apropos as well, as I still feel like one - physically and spiritually at heart - and likewise I am always discovering (completely rewarding nonetheless).
Moving to Denver was a welcome, and desired change.
Getting to frequently snowboard the Rockies the past decade left a mark on me, and eventually I had to take a chance.
My ideal match would be an independent lady, pursuing her own dreams, in a career or otherwise, but excited to share her everyday successes and failures with me.
Caring for and demonstratively conditioning your mind (and temple) are the most admirable and attractive qualities of any humaniod - regardless of what level you perceive, or achieve, as optimum.
In general, Friendship is paramount to all else.
...stop reading and email me already!

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. I find talking about myself hard to do so please bear with me. I will tell you that I am a great guy with a big heart who would do anything for loved ones. I am a very happy go lucky person who tries not to let things get me down and always looks for the positive. I have an awesome family and group of friends who I care about dearly and with whom I enjoy spending a lot of time. I have a great sense of humor, which I feel is very important not only in life but in a relationship. I believe that mutual respect is the foundation of a strong, healthy relationship. You don't always have to agree with each others beliefs and opinions but you do have to respect them. I also believe that good communication is key to a relationship and that starts with listening, at which I am told, men don't do very well but I tend to excel at listening.
I have recently (August 2011) started a journey to get healthy and back into shape. This is not a short term thing for me and I am committed to staying healthy for the rest of my life. As a result, I am much more active and love to do outdoor activities.
I am a Nebraska native who moved to Colorado with my family as a kid and have lived here ever since. I love the mountains and all that Colorado has to offer such as camping, hiking and the opportunity to explore new places. I enjoy riding bicycles, walking, and playing golf. I also love to go to sporting events of all kinds, either professional or college: football, hockey, baseball, and soccer. I am also not ashamed to admit that I love computers and computer games (Sorry, but I just have to let the inner geek out every now and then).
I would love to meet a woman who has a great sense of humor and is not afraid to laugh at herself. Physical attraction is nice but a great personality is key. Family is important to me and should be with you as well. I am open to learning and experiencing new things. We do not have to like all of the same things or do the same activities, as I believe varied interests help make a relationship stronger and more interesting. I enjoy traveling and would love to have someone who enjoys it as well. I have been to the UK and would love to go back and explore it with that special someone. If you are a girl that is not afraid of letting her inner geek out every now and then, even better!
If I have piqued your interest please drop me a line, I look forward to hearing from you.

Date a man from United States. Well, let's see, I'm 39, I'm unemployed and I live with my mother. I smoke a pack a day and drink as often as possible, but didn't want to address that on the stat sheet because I know that most of you broads don't smoke and would never look at my profile.
I love Colorado and currently have a little place there that faces the mountains. It's beautiful! Well, it's actually a storage garage where I keep all of my stuff. But I fixed it up really really nice, and maybe we can hang out there sometime.
I've always wanted to buy a home but could never afford to do it on my own. Therefore, I would need that "Someone Special" to co-sign for it. I'm sure that shouldn't be a problem if you have good credit.
My mother has described me to others as "indigent". I'm not sure what that means but it must be good cause it's coming from my mother, right? My friends (if I had any) would describe me as insecure, shallow and selfish. So my perfect match would need to be the same and she would also have to have a willingness to settle for less. A nice set of cans and/or a bubble butt would be a plus.
In the past I've dated some women who were border line alcoholics and in the end that ruined our relationship. So if you have a tendency to drink a little too much, then you're the girl for me! I love women who drink and can't control themselves. You are just too much fun to be around! Hell, I'll even drive you from bar to bar.
I'm a hard worker (when I have a job). I'm more than willing to put in the long hours that a difficult task may require because it keeps my mind off of how disappointing my life has turned out.
After looking at some of my competitors profiles, I have come to the realization that I need to add a few things to mine. Like a photo of a boat and one of me in a towel. Apparently chics dig boats and guys in towels with poor grammer and the inability to spell.
I still have a lot to learn about internet dating.
I love indoor activities, outdoor activities, whatever you wrote in your profile is fine with me cause that's what I'm into as well. I'm sure that I can act interested and fake it the whole time.
On a serious note:
I have never tried drugs and I don't look down on those who have in the past. However, I would not tolerate someone who currently takes part in that activity.
Thank you for your time and consideration. I truly believe that I will become a great asset to your team.
References will be made available upon request.
Bob
You're still reading this? Wow. I'm back from my year long trip around the country and will be updating my profile soon with photos of my new haircut.

Meet single man from United States. Me in a nutshell: easy going, great sense of humor, professional, goal oriented, and last but not least old fashioned. I enjoy all that Denver has to offer; great restaurants, entertainment, and tons of outdoor activities.
I took up distance running this year and so far I have finished two half marathons and I also ran the Colfax Marathon in May. I really enjoy running, it is such a great way to relieve stress!
In the winter I try to make it up to the mountains as much as possible to hit the slopes. I have CO Pass and make sure to get my money's worth during the season. I like to fit a Steamboat trip in as well, in my book there is nothing better than a day of skiing great powder followed by an evening soaking in the hot springs at Strawberry Park.
I have a professional career in the oil and gas industry that keeps me busy and gives me the opportunity to travel to various parts of the state and the Rocky Mountain region.
I am originally from the Eastern Plains of Colorado and grew up on a farm and ranch there.

Date someone special from United States. Ok maybe it is time to take a simpler approach to this? I really dislike having to talk about myself and all the positive things that are a part of me but it is a neccessary evil I suppose... So here it goes.
ME: Honest, loyal, hard working, awesome smile (that I don't show off enough), dreamy green eyes, all muscle (no fat here), A son, A brother, A true friend, determined, easy going, romantic, a bit shy at first. Very intelligent about many things and still learning about many others. Love a good song, Yet can't sing a lick. Naturally athletic, But still need dance lessons. Love food, yet I am still trying to graduate from the microwave. Can dress up real nice if need be, but feel more comfortable in casuals. I can make you laugh in many ways, yet forget how to tell you the best joke. Enjoy writing poetry, but have a hard time getting started. Just me in a netshell... Oh and ladies I feel like I need to say this just since most profiles of the profiles I have come across are stressing this particular point... I have been divorced for five years now. I have had my rebound(s) and commited relationships that have varied in length during this time that ultimately didn't work out for various reasons. I am in this for the long haul and want to find someone who is here for the same reasons and open to the idea of a LTR.
You: Honest, loyal, secure in your own skin, passionate, can find contentment in the simpler things, a great smile, able to communicate your thoughts and feelings, not a virgin (yes I said that), somewhat athletic, can teach me, is willing to learn from me, an IQ of at least 100, curious, mentally stable (you'd be surprised just how many people are not), can cook a little bit, enjoys being pampered, will give and recieve a massage and most importantly is looking for someone like me to add to thier life :)
I could go on and on about who I am and who I am looking to meet but in reality isn't this what we are all looking for in a potential mate? I very much enjoy learning about someone else so please don't be shy and get in touch... wink if that is all you can do and I will surely get back to you... Hope to see your smiling face in my mailbox soon!
Ciao for now ;)

Meet a soulmate from United States. Well to start off I really like to cook and read alot about real estate investing. Somedays I feel very happy with my life and content. Its the piece thats missing to feel wonderful that you have someone special to talk to and have a solemate for ever. Could it be you. You did click on my picture. It did strick an interest. If its really you Im a real easy going person who occasionally endulgeace in the finer foods in life. I like to snowboard, mountain bike, take walks, getaways, and snowmobiling.My ideal match would have a great personality, enjoy life to the fullest, want children in the future, achieve goals together, and have a sense of humor. This match also is finacially independent and strong mind also Indulge once in awile and take getaways.