Date men from United States / California / West Covina, 40 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. UPDATE: Someone told me that I needed to be clear upfront on what my intentions are on here. Well, plainly put, I want to fall in love. I know it's not something you can just order off the menu, so I expect to put as much time and effort in to whomever I connect with to see if it blooms. I am not a complicated person, and I definitely wear my heart on my sleve. If you're not looking for someone who has and shares his feelings, then I am probably not the guy for you. Like I tell my kids, we have to learn to deal with ourselves before we can deal with others. I refuse to dwell too much on the past because the only place to go is the future. Right now my big focus is taking care of myself. I lost 40bs last year, then got side tracked and gained most of it back. I am back in the groove however and have lost 7lbs in about 2 weeks. I'm determined to lose 35lbs by the end of the year. I'm doing it so I can be a better and more active father for my kids. Now, back to my regularly schedule profile.
Hi, about me: I have three sons who I share custody with my ex wife. When they are with me they are my world and I cherish my time with them. I am going through a divorce and hopefully it will be finale in a couple of months. I have been on my own for over a year and it’s been interesting. I’m getting to know myself a lot better and understand what went wrong in my marriage. Not her fault or mine, sometimes people just grow too far apart. My mantra is “He who forgets will be destined to remember” I try not to live with regrets, I just learn from my mistakes.
Though I have a good, secure job, it doesn't define who I am. It's a steady schedule, with occasional overtime thrown in. Aside from work and my boys I spend a lot of time working out, hiking, biking and doing things outdoors. I will admit to being a quiet guy at first. I’m a great listener. I enjoy listening to a person talk and hearing what they have to say. I enjoy quiet activities like dinners, movies, and walks, but I am also ready to have new adventures. I tried karaoke, and though I missed a few notes, I had a blast and want to do it again. I want to learn to salsa dance provided my two left feet can get on the same page.
What am I looking for? Good question. I am looking for someone to get to know and have fun with. I definitely believe in building a friendship first. I need someone who is family oriented and understands my family situation. I need honesty and openness from those around me. Though I will admit to not being too romantic by nature, I am definietly one who believes in love. I think it's the small gestures that make the biggest impacts in a relationship. I'm like that rare find you stumble upon at a yard sale. A little rough around the edges but once you look close enough you'll find a treasure for the taking.

Meet single man from United States. He can cook, he cleans, he does yard work and takes out the trash. He's repectful of everybody, good to old people and great with kids and most pets. And he's kinda good looking too don't ya think? And so it doesn't sound like I think I'm perfect, far from it, I'll admit that at times I can be a bit grumpy, stuborn, or somewhat sarcastic...I don't want to make this too long, so let's touch on the main points and if you'd like to find out more, drop me a line, I don't have much to hide :)...As you can read, never married and no kids. Definitely want kids, have spent my whole life around and helping other's, and would like a couple of my own. Very laid back, but serious when needed. Always looking for something to do; with a few exceptions, can't sit in front of the tv for very long (probably cuz I dislike commercials so much)...I don't follow any organized religion. I can see the good in religions, but I can also see the bad...My entertainment come mainly from hockey and football seasons, thankfully there are only a couple of months that neither is going, so during that time I'll find other stuff to with my nephews or getting caught up on stuff around the house...As for my possible match, she's honest, patient, isn't afraid to give her opinion, and feels that communication and compromise are big components of a lasting relaionship. She also wants to have children, fine by me if she is already a mommy, but she wants at least one more...So this is where I say thanks for reading a little about me, and encourage you to not be shy, send a quick hi, or a wink, to let me know what you think.

Date someone special from United States. I'm looking for a woman who is beautiful inside and out. She has to be spiritual not religious. I'm looking for a relationship base on trust, honesty, loyalty, and faithfulness. No lies and cheats. I am a Libra. I'm compatable with Leo, Scorpio, Taurus, and Saggitarius. Compatibility, chemistry are also important in a relationship. We must have alot of things in common. I want someone whom I can grow, learn, and enjoy life with and to be happy with. I don't want someone who only cares about the money.

Meet a man from United States. I adore hanging out and have a lot of fan.
Iwork too hard and I need some good time, life is too short to let it go.
I love women and their minds desides their....
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I always try new things, but no drugs.

Date a soulmate from West Covina, United States. "I am human and I need to be loved...." Steven Patrick Morrissey
My ideal match is someone who lives life to the fullest, close to her family and appreciates a qenuine guy. I enjoy being with my family and I value my closest friends. I work hard and play harder. I have thrived in my career, working with a wonderful team in the banking industry. I enjoy all outdoor activities, sports, the gym, lounges and VEGAS! I have traveled to Hawai'i, Mexico and Costa Rica (Pura Vida)! On my bucket list: Alaska and Europe. I enjoy exlporing our lovely City of Angels for fun, food and drink!
I'm looking for someone who can be silly yet serious, look amazing in her favourite pair of jeans and tank top for a day at the baseball game and for a night out is comfortable in her little black dress and heels. I work diligently to live a healthy lifestyle plus I'm open to new experiences, share ideas and a laugh often!
Chances are if you like to breathe air we are definitely a match. My pictures are recent, no topless bathroom pic's, I'm smiling w/teeth! :) and no headshots (although I can use one). I've been told Vince Vaughn and I share the same sense of humour. I'm big on music from the '80's (Morrissey, the Smiths, Love and Rockets...), dance and electronica (David Guetta, Deadmau5...). I'm open, honest and one of the few remaining chilvarous men in the SGV! References upon request.
Thank you most humbly for taking the time to read my profile and viewing my photos!
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Meet single man from West Covina, United States. Well I'm pretty easy going. I like football, baseball, and the UFC. I like beer. Pizza, burgers, the usual junk food. I'm a huge fan of Diners Drive-ins and Dives and the Food Network. My dream is to go to every place Guy's been to on the show. Pretty cheesy I know. But thats me. I love to laugh. I'm a huge fan of comedy's. Love Will Ferrel, Mel Brooks, Adam Sandler. You get the idea I'm sure. I like the outdoors, especially camping. The eastern sierra's are probably my favorite place to be. A good night for me would be dinner and a movie maybe a drink or two then relaxing the rest of evening at home.
I hope to find somebody who's into some of the same things. A sense of humor is a must. I like to joke around alot. A little playfull banter back and forth is always fun. I'm a goofball and a dork, but also romanitic and caring. I'm a bit old fashioned I believe in open the car door for a lady, pulling out her chair, and saying grace before dinner. I love kids and family life.Even though my children are still young 8 and 6 I can't remember what it was like without them. Kids are the best and worst all rolled up into one lol. If you have them you know what I'm talking about.
I actually got more down here than I ever thought I would come up with so I think I can stop boring everyone now.