Date men from United States / California / Big Bear Lake, 40 year old

Date a man from Big Bear Lake, United States. I am an easy going, fun loving man. I have a good sense of humor and like making people laugh. I live in an awesome place with lots of trails to hike and activities to go enjoy. I enjoy hiking, traveling and spending time at home. I don't like camping, I like to be clean. You have to ask me what I do for work. I do have a full-time job though. I have never been arrested, don't have any medical or mental issues, have never had anyone get a restraining order against me and expect the same...;)I'm looking forward to getting to make some great friends and hope to find someone who is extra special to spend my free time with and build a long term relationship.
I am looking for a give/give relationship..have tried the give and take ones..they don't work. In a give/ give relationship neither person has to take anything..it was already given to them..:)
I have 3 children, a 24 year old son (he is my first ex's son from a previous marriage, I adopted him) who is in the Army, a 10 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. My daughter lives with me full-time, and my little one I see as much as possible. I'm a hands on dad and spend a lot of time with my kids.Feel free to ask me about anything.
I enjoy traveling, and have plans to travel to Alaska and Hawaii in the near future. I like to go hiking, but dislike camping. Its mustard and no ketchup for me. I enjoy spending time with my children, if I could figure out how to make a living as a stay at home father I would do it in a heart beat.
Why am I on this site? I'm looking for my best friend, my soul mate. I still have hope she is out there somewhere. Anyways, while I am looking for her, I am sure I will meet some really awesome people on this site and make some friends along the way.
Anyways, happy hunting..:)