Date men from United States / California / Kingsburg, 40 year old

Date single man from Kingsburg, United States. I am a graphic designer, a father of a 7-year old son, I have a new zest for life, and a sincere desire to find someone I connect with on a deep and true level. I'm definitely a geek; when it comes to Apple / Star Wars / Disneyland. I love the many Apple products floating around my house. Love the ocean and the beach, I SCUBA dive but it has been forever (do you dive?) My favorite holiday is Christmas, and I especially enjoy Disneyland at Christmas time (Christmas Magic plus Disneyland Magic FTW) I'm open, honest, and my humor is generally sarcastic and self-depreciatory in nature. I love listening to how people truly feel about subjects and/or situations, and having conversations about them so I can learn more about that person and myself. I'm looking for someone who appreciates the person I am, taking the light side with the dark side, one must be balanced in The Force,... right?
I put my all into my relationships and hope to find someone who does the same. I want someone to talk to, to laugh with, to experience life with, and to grow old with. I'm looking for love. Not lust or like. I think those two things are commonly confused with love. I want to see my partner and feel lust. I want to have a conversation with her and definitely like her. I want to be away from her and miss her and not be able to stop thinking about her. I want her to lay in my arms and wish it could stay like that forever.
What I’m doing with my life — Making the best out of it with what I have! Learning to be a more positive thinker and a better interpersonal communicator with my feelings.
I’m really good at — Listening with an open mind, driving too fast, graphic design and photography — well I'm learning here and I'm having fun doing so. I've also been told I'm a good at cuddling and kissing,... but you really should judge this yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me — That I make them smile or laugh... or maybe it is my boobs? HA! See I made you smile! ;^)
I need to read more,... or so I've been told. That being said, I'm on Book 2 of Harry Potter right now. The last book I read was Nikki Sixx: The Heroin Diaries, what a crazy far out look at "A Year in the Life of a Shattered Rock Star". The Secret - Law of Attraction.
I enjoy movies! Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Back to the Future, Blade Runner, Heat, Quentin Tarantino Films, Tombstone and The Toy Story Trilogy (anything by Pixar for that matter WALLLLLLLLL•Eee) are stellar. I like Sci Fi and comedies the best, with action/adventure/mystery a close second. I generally don't care for romances because they're too corny (Harry Meet Sally was still a good movie though), and I don't do scary (sometimes) or gruesome. To clarify, gruesome = Texas Chainsaw Massacre.
TV — Alcatraz, Tosh.0, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report. I'm a huge fan of the Travel Channel, Food Network, History Channel and PBS. I also have an addiction to Star Wars The Clone Wars. Sometimes I also like to watch Podcasts on my AppleTV (DiggNation, WebBeat, GeekBeat). Then when football season starts, I prefer Saturday Football over Sunday Football, Fight On! USC
iTunes — include but limited to; The Cult, U2, Hollywood Undead, Jack Johnson, Johnny Cash, Darren Emerson, Paul Van Dyk, Weekend Players, Henry Rollins, The Reverend Horton Heat, Paul Oakenfold, The Doors, Katy Perry, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, and last but not least, I just got back into Motley Crue (I think this had to do with reading Nikki Sixx's book)
Food - Mmm! My favorite is Japanese, and Sushi. I also enjoy Mexican, Italian, and I am way over due for a Wine Dinner.
Ideal Date — Something quiet and fun... so we can talk and get to know each other. Perhaps Japanese food in a private Tatami Room... or at a sushi bar. I'm always open to options :^)