Date men from United States / California / Santa Monica, 46 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a Los Angeles native with a good job and good friends, but I need someone to talk to while I'm making a roux. (I'm not a great cook, but I try occasionally). I'm a professor at a local college, but I have a rock n roll side too. And oh yeah, I'm not exactly 46 but the photos are current.
I have a cute little house on the Westside. I am in the process of fixing it up. It has a big backyard. It's sunny during the day. At night you can see the stars.
It's not easy to say what kind of woman I am looking for because I don't have "a type."
I hang out in Santa Monica a lot. But I like exploring other parts of the city and the world.
(I live right near Santa Monica but Match wants me to say I live in Cheviot Hills/Rancho Park, and that's like four miles away...)

Meet single man from California, United States. I would love to leave this site for good, yes really, so let's find each other. If something on my page inspires you do reach out, write me and let's talk some more.
To write more objectively about myself I asked people who know me well, they say I am a fun and positive guy with a great sense of humor, educated, well traveled, easy going but aware, a true friend who loves to laugh and has an easy way with people. Recently I was reminded to add considerate and well mannered.
I am into classic cars and wines which I love to share with friends who appreciate them. I love to spend time with my kid, family and my great friends. I have a wonderful loving family, an awesome and almost grown son and we are all very close. I am definitely open to having more children, if it is not to be I am also at peace with only one.
I am a happy, genuine and easy going guy, true and loyal, looking to find his best friend and partner.
I am a passionate diver and I really care about the environment on land and at sea. I make every effort not to waste and I am respectful to nature and all animals. I love to plan trips, pack and have fun, I know how to travel well. I "get" technical stuff, reading instructions manuals, putting things together. I love being on the ocean and under water and I still have a child like fascination with learning and experiencing new things. I have lived in several countries and traveled quite a bit, speak several languages, the perspective I have gained makes me who I am today, aware and open, so naturally I connect with people who have a broader perspective.
I identify more with the East Coast and Midwest/Southern values and sensibilities. I love living here yet I connect better with similarly minded people.
Obviously we have to start by emailing but I am not one who is going to entertain a long back and forth exchange. My true self and personality really come out in person and even on the phone so ideally I prefer to exchange a few emails to break the ice then move on to a live phone conversation or two, or three, then a meeting.
I love to laugh, have fun, make jokes, laugh hysterically at my own jokes (goofy, I know), and at the same time I am a no BS guy, I am considerate and thoughtful, totally real and sincere. I make a great partner who is completely loyal and supportive of his mate. I am definitely at my best in a committed relationship. The woman I hope to find and I are best friends forever. I have her back unconditionally, always, and she has mine. I know how to listen, resolve issues, move forward, not repeat past mistakes, and I have well above average communication skills. Having similar overall values is important but also knowing when and how to compromise and to be flexible builds a stronger bond.
I love cooking together with a glass of great wine, being silly, snuggling with someone who makes me feel blissful and I make her feel the same. We are affectionate and sensual, I can't wait to see her again after we say goodbye, the feeling I get from thinking about the next time we meet is like nothing else.
I am a great guy and I make a great partner, help me get me off this roller coaster :-) I am serious.
"People will forget what you said and what you did, but rarely will they forget how you made them feel"

Date someone special from California, United States. I grew up in the mid-west in a musical family. I work in the music industry which is filled with arrested development people like me. I am an analytical person and am often over-thinking everything. I'm looking for an independent and interesting girl who is laid back and isn't cynical about men. I have some really great friends and I love my family.
I've done a lot in my life... I was drafted to play pro hockey in my early 20's, passed that up for a professional drumming career. I have toured the world through music, and am currently working as a freelance studio drummer in LA. I was recruited by Microsoft as a Web Designer which lasted only a year. I realize that I'm more of an artist and not a "suit". I am an avid ice hockey player - playing 5 times a week. Despite that, I still have all my original teeth. (You're welcome Mom)
My hope is that I can find someone who surprises me.... in a good way.
I'm not much into partying as my work has me traveling and playing clubs... so in my free time, I prefer to find a fun place to "hang" and chat over coffee, or great food, or an adult beverage or two. I love Movies and TV, BBQs and I have a couple tattoos...sort of a new obsession.

Meet a man from California, United States. I am on the quiet side but I do think I have a good sense of humor. I set off to see the world many years ago and I have been very fortunate to have seen a lot of it and I have thoroughly enjoyed it. It has been a dream of mine to live close to the ocean, after living in different parts of the country, and it finally has come true after all these years. I suppose I used to be a big dreamer but it would be nice to settle down with somebody "nice" with a little bit of old fashion in her. Unfortunately I am going bald but I am suprised I made it to the age of 46 with what I have now. Would prefer a solid relationship since I am not really into dating very much.
I go to the movies alot which is one of the many things I like about Los Angeles along with the sun, ocean, mountains, and weather.

Date a soulmate from Santa Monica, United States. I’m a fun, outgoing and friendly guy with a contagious laugh and positive attitude. I can adapt to any situation and am comfortable with all types of people. I have a warm and gentle personality and am usually someone immediately feel at ease with and seek out to talk to. I am always willing to start a conversation or keep one going. I have a fresh and focused attitude and a driven, determined spirit. I am very strong willed and if I’m told something is impossible, I will find a way to prove otherwise. I’m honest, romantic and believe there is nothing better than making my partner happy. I would describe myself as a goal oriented, ambitious person who knows when to slow down and appreciate life. If you suggest a getaway to an exotic beach resort, I will probably be reserving tickets and packing my bags before you can blink. Warm sunshine, soft white sand and the sound of ocean waves will always put a smile on my face. I love being outdoors and am active no matter what the season. Favorite summer time activities include boating and water skiing. When the snow falls I’m strapping on my skis and hitting the slopes. Yes, I lead a busy lifestyle but I also make time to relax. Sharing intimate and romantic moments with someone special will always be a vital part of the relationship. I believe romance needs to be nurtured in order to blossom and grow and I will always do my part. I’ve always been drawn to a happy demeanor and beautiful smile. But beauty is also in the eyes of the beholder and I think it is possible to connect with all different types of people. I also believe her innermost qualities are just as important as her outer shell. She can maintain a positive attitude no matter what is going on around her. She doesn’t let the little issues become big problems and has an easy going attitude. I would best match up with someone smart, nonjudgmental, honest and kind. I think falling in love is one of life’s greatest gifts and I hope to experience it soon with a wonderful person.

Meet single man from Santa Monica, United States. I love everything there is to do outside. And an attorney in international trade, for the cerebral side. The great variety of people I also appreciate, and that wellness is such a priority here. I'd like to meet people who are active and personable. Most of the people I get along well with are friendly, reliable, optimistic, attractive in body and spirit, enthusiastic, smart, solid, warm, and engaging people with character. Myself, I’m those things as well – at least on most days! I want a partner in my life, to participate in life with me, someone I want to adore and is my queen rather than a princess. A satisfying weekday for me is having a challenging and productive day at work, great workout, then dinner with a friend. Weekends are spent going for a hike, seeing family, classes, being with friends. Like natural (implant and piercing and tattoo). How does any of this sound to you?

Date someone special from Santa Monica, United States. I consider myself a fun, outgoing, easy to get along with kind of guy, Love the outdoors, live music, a ball game, the beach, camping, hiking, running and hanging out with family. I play the guitar and into all types of music, I exersize regularly and I would prefer someone who is active and exercises as well. .Looking for someone who is solid emotionally, takes care of themselvs and is willing to go out and see new places and things. I am not a couch potato but I do like to watch sports. I also like to watch comedy/romance and some action and suspense movies.

Meet a man from Santa Monica, United States. As I've gotten older, through the ups and downs of life, there has been a constant: I'm an optmist, and I'm young at heart. I also try to have balance. I have a very dark sense of humor, some say British, but I can also be very serious at time. Soulful would be a good word. Easy going is another. Honest. Nice Guy. Heck yeah. I have no shame in treating people how I want to be treated. I'm definitely sensitive, emotionally in tune, not afraid to talk about that kind of stuff. But there's other sides of me too. I got some kick ass take no prisoners in me as well.
At one point in my life I was doing really well as an advertising copywriter, I made great money, owned a nice condo in NYC. But things happen in life (No I didn't do a bunch of drugs and pissed it all away). I end up in Los Angeles and started back on the bottom working in entertainment. It's been a struggle starting over but I'm glad for all these experiences. As things start to come together, I feel fortunate to really appreciate the finer things in life. Money is great, but it's not the reward. Another corny line, but it's true" It's always been the people you meet along the way. I'm wiser and smarter now.To say I'm passionate and creative also sounds like a cliche in an online profile. But I said it. Oh well.
So here I am on Match: Hoping to meet woman I may not normally meet. I like to have a good time and bars and lounges, but rarely do I ever meet anyone at those places. In truth, I'm not really trying either. A connection, either physical, emotional or intellectual would be great. And when I say physical, I don't mean of the booty call kind, but there are physical connections where you touch a gal, and it feels like you've known her forever. That kind of stuff.
Here's to new adventures.

Date a soulmate from United States. I am honest, caring and easy going. I don't let little things get me down. I like to laugh and make others laugh. I like to enjoy myself and have fun, otherwise, what's the point? I am considerate and like to do my best to insure those around me are having fun too. I don't sweat the small stuff. I feel I can always be optimistic and handle any situation. I would like to meet someone that is also positive and easy going and who values trust and respect the way that I do.

Meet single man from United States. I am a diligent and responsible gentleman. I enjoy a variety of activities. They include writing, traveling, searching history and seeing historical places, cooking, reading, theater, sporting events, movies, museums,orchestra, collecting/researching fine watches, tennis, golf, fitness, and connecting/being with dear friends.
I played football back in college so Saturday's can sometimes be in front of a large screen TV. I work in engineering/construction as a cofounder of a business. I respect challenging construction projects and leading motivated professionals.
My past has experienced personal triumph and some heartache. I have learned much and this I know; my soulmate is spirited, independent, attractive, feminine, loving, loyal, accomplished, humorous, and intimate. She knows what she wants and she won't settle for anything less than she deserves.