Date men from United States / California / Perris, 46 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. Hello! I'm looking for you, and I know you are out there somewhere, and you are looking for me too! If you are looking for a kind, caring man who respects others as well as himself, then I am your man! You are looking for a man who loves with passion as well as compassion, we should meet! I love most all types of music from Jazz, Pop, Techno, J-Pop, Rock and some Rap. My goals in life are to see my two wonderful children (my daughter who is 8, and my son who is 5) grow up happy and healthy and become great adults who can contribute positively to our society, find my true love, and be used by God for whatever calling He has for me! I am honest, sincere, and loving. And I am a romantic! I enjoy walks while holding hands, cuddling, and kissing! I also like movies, amusement parks, roller skating (don't have any skates at the moment though:) ), and days & evenings spent doing whatever! I can be a bit quiet at first, but after we get that initial first or second date finished, I'm usually good to go!
I don't quite know what it is that makes me unique or anything like that. All I can tell you is how I am, what I like, and don't like. I'm recently divorced, but I've been separated for about a year and a half now. I'm not looking for a Mother for my kids or anything like that, I'm just ready to try love again and pray that I get it right this time with you:). But it all begins again with getting myself out there, so here I am!
So...ok! What do I like in a woman? What is it that I'm looking for? Well, hey, it all starts with appearance! Now, don't call me shallow, hang with me for a sec, and see where I'm taking this:). You see, my first impression of you is physical! We all like what we like, and for me, I am looking for a lady with a cute smile, and she should be what I like to call "sneakily sexy"! Let me elucidate: I want you to be sexy, have a great body, but you don't have to walk around scantily clad to show it off. You know how to rock a pair of jeans and sneakers as well as a cute sundress and sandals or flats. And you don't have to necessarily be slim or expertly toned to do this, but I'll say that I am not looking for my lady to be heavy. I'm not, and that's not what I want. I'm not saying that you have to be real thin either. But I'm thin, and I'm looking for someone who ranges from thin to a few extra pounds. Not real heavy. I don't mean to offend anyone, I'm just telling what I prefer, and the same goes of course for me. I'll tell you right here and now that I'm very slim, I weigh about 150lbs (155 soaked and wet:)), so if you are looking for some muscular, chiseled type of guy, then I WILL disappoint you, and I would tell you to press on in your search. Hey, I understand. We want what we want, and you have to have some type of physical attraction because it all begins from there. And THEN we move to the inner qualities...
What am I after? Who are you inside? Are you a caring person who likes rainy days? Are you a compassionate person who often puts others first? Are you emotional? Do you cry when watching certain movies, or when a story or poem you might come across touches your heart? When you love someone, do you tell them, perhaps whisper it to them in the middle of the night with the lights out and all is still? Do you call them up in the middle of the day for no reason, just to hear their voice and to tell them "I love you..."? Are you a good friend? Do you care about others, not just people that you know well, but those you don't even know? Can you be happy in almost any situation?
If you love deeply, live righteously, are not self-centered, and have or want God in your life, then we need to talk. Where are you? I'm looking for you.