Date men from United States / California / Marysville, 46 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I am that nice guy that women hope to find but feel they never do and I'm simply looking for someone who is ready to be happy!
I work full time as an IT Specialist and like my job. It gets me where I want to go which is pretty much everywhere. I've seen most of the United States and much of the world including South America, Europe and the Middle East. Most of my travel was for work so I'd like to find out if a true vacation is all it is cracked up to be.
While I'm into sci-fi and fantasy, I don't like gore and enjoy romantic dramas if I have someone to cuddle with afterward. I enjoy live sports but don't really watch them on the TV – I prefer to cook fantastic meals and come up with unique wine pairings.
It is hard to say exactly what I'm looking for in a match because I'm very open-minded. I'm looking for what feels right, good and comfortable – someone whose spirit wraps around me and tells me that this is it. And I'm not afraid of commitment, I'm just looking for someone I can't live without before making the big leap.
I'm a hopeful romantic because I believe there is always hope for romance. If you feel the same and think we might click, please send me an email. I'd love to talk.