Date men from United States / California / Campbell, 46 year old

Date someone special from United States. So, ya looking at me huh? Wooohooo! Then again, people like looking at horrible car accidents! ( oh don't lie, you do and you know it) I know why though.. its my studly nature isn't it? Yep, I get that ALL the time.. Its really a curse you know.. Don't you have lots of people fawning all over you? Me too! Heck in the hospital I get all the 80 year old granny's I want.( for some reason they love the arm hair) Now, that would be great if I were into that kind of thing. But Im not. And although my job allows me more intrusion into peoples personal space than most will ever see, the only kind of clinging I get is usually the drunk who had too much and is now trying to use me as their personal barf bucket. Say it with me now.. EWWWW!
I'm not subtle. In fact I'm a Taurus and proud of it. I'm a male RN AND an only parent.. I always get the kids in the ER because I'm still one myself. Well, in spirit anyways. :)
So..you still with me? Hopefully because you see yourself in me and you are saying to yourself, " I wanna get to know this guy! He's real, He's handsome, He's funny! I wanna have his baby NOW!! Errr. ok lets stop there before we both end up in the ER barfing our brains out. Sure I wanna have more kids.. maybe... maybe not.. Just not in the span of the next paragraph mmmk?
Now for my in the spirit of full disclosure cliche statement thingy.. I will say this. Don't jerk my chain. I like my chain. Its a nice one. I do have a huge heart and although after 46 years it can take a licking and keep on ticking, it doesn't like being stepped on and used. If I write you, I'm interested in YOU, not notches in my belt. Please have the decency and respect to return the favor even if it is to stomp on my heart ( kidding!) I can take it.. honest, I can..
So who else am I? That's an easy one. I'm the guy that would love to make you laugh until you snort.. rub your feet and your back after a hard day, hold your hand and look at you all day and night. Kiss the nape of your neck and marvel at your beauty, fix your car, your heart and your boo- boos. I am your biggest fan, and tactfully, your honest critic as well as a faithful puppy but never your doormat. My heart is full of gold, but sometimes my head is full of rocks. I would count on you to speak your mind, keep me wanting and needing you as well as being in awe.. Its not hard, trust me.. I am a simple guy in that aspect. I need but one woman, Period.
I would trust you with my feelings rather easily, give you an answer for a question, challenge you to be the best you can be and allow you to see my heart that I so often wear on my sleeve.. I'm not good at hiding my feelings..but I'm not a bucket of blubbering bawling BS either..
I like things like breathing, eating and anything else that might be life sustaining... I can cook AND I also clean Yep, shocking isn't it? As far as relationships go, its work.. and wow! Sometimes its HARD work! How about that! Ever notice that very few things in this world are one sided? Diet and no exercise? Fail. Peanut Butter with no Jelly? Double fail.. Relationships without work? Take without Give? Are you kidding me?
Now amazingly.. I am NOT looking for a quickie, do it now, hook up, NY to CA relationship.. uh uh.. it ain't happening. I'm the real deal.. You need to be too. My heart is way too important at this stage of the game. And as much as I love dogs, Im not one to imitate them, I don't bark without a reason, I don't bite and I don't chase.. This keeps me out of trouble and out of train wrecks.
So how about it? Am I your kind of guy?
Before you answer, let me warn you.. You must be willing to accept love, security, integrity, respect, kindness and warmth as well as laugh your butt off.
To me its the only way to live..
Good Luck!!

Meet a man from United States. Part-time single father of a beautiful 11 yr old daughter, good career, fun, outgoing and a great boyfriend (references available).
I enjoy staying active (gym, sports, running, biking, hiking) to offset my daily desk job.
Perpetual work in progress... always looking to learn and experience new things... like who I am today and looking forward to who I will become.