Date men from United States / California / La Crescenta, 46 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I am looking for a lover /friend not looking to rush into anything lets meet and see if we have a spark and take it from there. I'm easy going ,with a good sense of humor,my match should be pretty close to same.I'm the quiet type I'm not big on small talk although I do my best.I'm a good listener. sometimes I like being spontaneous. Making plans are ok too.