Date men from United States / California / Walnut Creek, 59 year old

Date a soulmate from Walnut Creek, United States. "A man should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently and die gallantly. Specialization is for insects." I read that quote a long time ago, and it struck a chord in me. I am not sure I can do all of these, yet, but I am still learning...
BTW my primary photo is the most recent, taken just as I was getting ready to start a sailboat race. The black and white is me on the beach when I was 16. Haven't changed much!! (or so I tell myself...)
I seem paradoxical. Serious but playful, I love thought provoking, stimulating conversation. Which is almost as much fun as a squirt gun fight. I enjoy many fine things in life, but I don't wish to sell my soul. I'm a liberal democrat with a Masters Degree in Business. I'm not religious, yet I would like to learn more about the Budda and I enjoy going to the Sing-it-yourself Messiah during the holidays. I am NOT into watching sports on TV, so your days of being a football widow are behind you. While an occasional football game can be fun, watching a baseball game on TV is, for me, a slow death (and golf is worse). I would rather go for a walk, go to an art auction or work in the garden. Also, I like to shop. A few more details: I like to sail, and I keep my boat in San Francisco and sometimes bring my dog Charlie. (A Westie) I also enjoy architecture ( I designed my last two homes) and photography, so you can't be too shy. I am not a cook, I confess, and my palate is somewhat pedestrian. (But I do laundry and houskeeping...) I'm looking for someone around my own age. I'll gladly trade two twenty-somethings for a smart, sexy 40/50-something.
ps I am very handy around the house. Have tools, will travel... and I have my tux hanging in the closet if you need more "formal" help.
About who I would be interested in... I imagine she has a large reserve of both intellectual and emotional capacity. A woman who has inner strength enough to be kind. Who has courage to stand up for what she believes, but knows when to choose her battles. She enjoys a candle-lit bubblebath with champagne. She can look me in the eyes when we make love. She probably has some artistic ability or creative outlet. She has come to the realization that always wanting more is a tragic way to go through life...If you've made it this far, and you really think we could be a good fit, don't be shy, send me a note.

Meet single man from Walnut Creek, United States. The first thing is ... nooo ... I'm not delusional ... I know I'm not exactly "toned" (these days, anyway :) ... but I AM athletic ... secondly, while I enjoy what "the city" has to offer, I'm really more of a "country boy" ... I'm smart (well educated), athletic (former All-American swimmer), funny (or so I've been told) and an avid reader ... honesty and integrity are very important ... I love doing anything outdoors ... boats, skis (downhill and cross-country), hikes, bikes, you name it .. I used to be an real adrenalin junkie, but have been trying to turned it down ... a bit :) ... I've had my own business for over 20 yrs ... live in Walnut Creek ... second home in Truckee ... my daughters (19 and 20) are the loves of my life (being "Daddy" is the best job ever !!) ... I'm affectionate (holding hands, discreet PDA's, big hugs) and appreciate it in return ... I grew up in Ohio farm country ... "settled" in California about 20 years ago after 8 years in Seattle (loved it !!) ... I work out 2-3 times a week for about two hours , mostly cardio machines, swimming and some weight work ... over the years, I've travelled thru most of the US and quite a bit overseas (haven't been to Africa, Middle East, and New Zealand ... yet) ... I've owned several boats (power and sail), motorcycles and cars (gotta go FAST!!) ... I'd love to learn to fly a plane and a helicopter someday ... there's more, but let's save it :) ...
OK ... so what am I looking for?? ... first and foremost, intelligence and humor ... honesty and affection ... athletic would be a plus ... laid-back, but with plenty of energy ... must love outdoor activities (skiing, boating and hiking, at least) ... you realize that life is short and best when shared ... that being beautiful on the outside is something, but being beautiful on the inside is everything ... and that kindness is not a sign of weakness, but of strength.
My photos are VERY current ... yours should be, too (HONESTY, remember) ... and if you're good at using Photo Shop, please restrain yourself :0)
About "smoking" ... one pack lasts all week ... at work and ONLY at work ... Why not quit ?? ... Stress relief, I guess ... some people take medication or drink ... I have a cigarette or workout.
One last thing ... I know you can't put in an order for a "perfect fit" ... it's an "off-the-rack" world, after all ... but please don't try to contact me if you don't love fairly strenuous outdoor activities ... once in a while, anyway :)
Thanks for reading, and GOOD LUCK !!

Date a man from Walnut Creek, United States. Greetings! I am a youthful 58 year old professional man seeking a warm, witty and compatible woman - first for fun, discovery and adventure - then if mutually agreed upon- a committed love relationship.
Your appreciative of the arts, and/or athletics - a good communicator, and inwardly and outwardly attractive to me.
I am a professional and contain a blend of balanced qualities. Mature, responsible and serious. Yet, I'm - funny, carefree, adventuresome and open-minded. I like the arts, athletics, outdoors, travel and all forms of relaxation. (lol)
I am athletic, personable and attractive. Meeting me is easy - as I see this service as an introduction and am respectful- yet light-hearted about meeting people and have full intentions to keep the process a positive one for those I meet and myself!

Meet someone special from Walnut Creek, United States. I'm a health nut, I work out regularly, and watch my diet. Ironically, I'm a serious guy but I don't take myself too seriously. I'm a hopeless romantic who cries in sad movies...... but then I also cry when I get my utility bill.
I work in Information Technology and live alone with my two cats. (They let me live with them!) Though it may sound fishy, I've been told that I'm a good catch!(Thanks, Mama!). We all have some baggage at this stage of life but I'm hoping to meet a woman with just a small carry-on and not a 5-piece set of Gucci luggage!
Looking for a friend who shares some of my interests and sense of humor and let's see what develops. Hopefully, she will be an attractive, independent woman who always tries to look her best, is smart, and laughs a lot. Physical affection will be as important to her as it is to me. She will laugh at my jokes (mostly to humor me) and will be secure enough to laugh at herself.
Like many of us, I've been knocked down a few times but I'm at my best when I'm challenged and I always seem to rise to the occasion. This has made me stronger and given me a good sense of humor. I agree with whoever said that comedy is just tragedy revisited.
I love a romantic setting, sitting across a dinner table from that special someone who enjoys my company as much as I enjoy hers. What do you think, Ms. Special Someone?

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Just a regular guy with a sardonic wit and love of the mountains and ocean.
Caring and compassionate but prone to working too much, so in a constant state of re-balancing the multiple stressors of life. Having a friend and confidant , one who encourages play as much as work, is an important counterweight to life's hectic pace.
I'd likely wish to start out slowly, building friendship first; it's not that I am opposed to fiery passion, in fact I am a romantic at heart, it's just that I want the flames fed for the long haul. So heart and soul compatibility are important.

Meet single man from California, United States. Hi there Steve here!
I am a widower after 32 good years of marriage. I am ready to start a new chaptor in my LIFE! I love to Laugh and I am looking for someone to Enjoy the mysteries of life . Life is to short to make it a problem to be solved ! A good frend needed, then a soul mate. Romantice is hard to explain for a guy? I like to LIVE life to the fullest not missing a moment. OK let me tell you I am house trained ,leave the toilet seat down and all that stuff. I am Loyal, honest, caring, romantic. Just an old carpenter looking tor an anchor to keep him stable. But, I have way more plus factors, than a carpenter! Are you the one that can Inspire me?

Date a man from California, United States. My friends describe me as fun, helpful, loyal, social, extroverted and playful.Positive human interaction makes me smile.I am proud of my children. I am grateful for my family, friends and to be working at something I like to do.I am hoping to attract a person that complements me and that I complement, one with which I feel chemistry when I meet them. A person that contributes to our overall peace of mind and happiness.

Meet someone special from California, United States. My friends would describe me as a nice man, active, who enjoys having fun! I like to snow ski, water ski and fish. I can Scuba dive but only do it occasionally. I love to go to comedy shows, movies (sci fi and action/comedy) and concerts ( rock and reggae). I can smile at almost anything, and laugh easily. I am most proud of and grateful for my son, who is in college and has turned out to be a great young man!
I try to be as honest as I can but my friends will vouch for the fact that sometimes I think what I mean and say something else! This only occasionally gets me into trouble!! I have several friends, some from high school. I keep social with wine tasting trips, dinners at home, Movies, dancing (when available!) skiing, boating and comedy/concerts.
I always intend to go to the gym and even sometimes make it!
My work keeps me busy but allows me lots of free time as well. I follow politics, go to the Warriors games, and try to keep up on world news.
I'm looking for someone who has similar interests, is attractive to me, and who is looking for a long time relationship. Commitment phobes need not apply!
Update, fun and sensual are important to me.
A playful bedroom manner is a plus!
This has been a little long-winded, but I'm looking for someone special!

Date a soulmate from United States. I know it is difficult to read profiles; so here is the cliff note version :). I am happy (most of the time, I wake up and go to sleep happy), soulful, thoughtful, honest, grounded, open, spiritual, creative, playfull, strong, gentle, reflective, fun, confident, persistant; I have learned to live life with a grateful heart, for me gratitude is a the foundation of an abundant life, I live in the present, love music, the beach- rain or shine, the ocean brings me home to my self, I love art, photography, cooking, sports (playing more than watching), day trips with the top down, dancing in the kitchen, laughing, I always look for what is good, I believe that every experience is an opportunity to grow and change. Family is the center for me, friends are very important to me. I love to travel, meet new people and learn about different cultures, experience life to the fullest, I have adult children that are over the age of 26, they are wonderful and a big part of my life., I enjoy working in the garden, making and fixing things, I am good with my hands, have built a house; I open doors, chew with my mouth closed, say thank you, I will always look you in the eye when we talk, I would like to meet a woman for dating, friendship, activities, that could develop into a long term relationship; Do what ever it takes... but get to me. I am lookng for (not over the age of 61) a woman who knows her self, is grounded, happy, and is not looking for someone to save them, sensual, spiritual (loves God (Spirit) not religeous), takes care of self in all regards, has a grateful heart, loves to play, hug, kiss, cook (with me), read, travel, the beach, dance in the rain or in the kitchen. is spontaneous, adventureous, can't spell (I need spell check), open to new experiences, thoughts, and personal growth. Please do not contact me if your listed age is fictional. New photos taken Aug 27, 2010, walking my youngest daughter down the isle.

Meet single man from United States. I am a free flowing person who loves life and am open to a natural connection. I love music, nature, and beauty in what form it comes. I enjoy sharing insights, both learning and expressing, in life with people. I like to have fun, dance, and be silly, also. I see the positive in people and things, do not prefer rigid structure, and live pretty intuitively as a whole. That being said, I also can be very focussed and engaged where needed in my business. There is not a straight set of characteristics that I could describe what I am looking for, just in general, a sense of playfulness, intuitiveness, genuineness, and openness.

Date a man from United States. I think of myself as someone who after many years can celebrate what a wonderful ride life is and that the people who ride with you , some a short distance and some almost all the journey are there for good and positive reasons whether one realizes it at the time or not ..
I have also learned that if one doesn't love oneself and forgive oneself first no real love or forgiveness can be extended to another.
I am a blessed man because of the people that have been in my life and the experiences I had with all of them most importantly my twin sister and older sister and my two grown and successful daughters and a few life long friends. I'm the kind of guy happier with a few close dear friends that I love and care about rather than 300 where do I know him/her from...
Things that make me happy are the fact that each day is a clean slate and I can try and be a better Dad , brother and son and to let just let it shine. Happiness is enjoying my God given talents with music and art and sharing those things with those I love .. and someone intimate in my life , who could ask for more?
Things I would love to find in a female is a woman who is gentle and affectionate and patience with me ( I can get a little hyper or shall we say unfocused) . A compassionate woman who knows in life she is fulfilled from within by the love for herself and not the man who loves her. . A woman who doesn't hold back her feelings about things and values the good in her man's heart and his true nature. A women who will share her passion for life and her love with me just as I will with her. A woman unafraid to be spontaneous in showing her love.
As I write this I must sound pretty demanding but there it is the ideal but we are all just human beings dong the best we can
Fun Facts:
I got whistled at yesterday by the fed-ex lady ( i needed that for a 50ish guy)
My Faults and Conditions
I'm high strung and talk to much (just tell me to shut up I'm use to it )
I have been told I'm too sensitive.
I can be moody but it never last more than a couple hours
I don't like nascar or sports all that much really I don't watch it , sometimes a good college basketball game I like for 5 minutes
I'm a news junky
There me be !!