Date men from United States / California / Santa Ynez, 59 year old

Date single man from United States. OK Fess up! What you realy want to know is, is he rude to waiters? will he wear a t-shirt to my family's reunion? does he implode if I decide to change one last time before we leave the house? will he be jealous of the UPS man, will he not eat tofu served by my girlfriend;is he kind hearted and are those pictures realy him???
Ok then!Here's it is~ ~I would wait on the waiter;I own many suits;enjoy wearing a tux and parents invite me back with/out the daughter; I have 3 daughters 3 little grand daughters, 2 sisters; expect and understand an occasional "fashion crisis", I am secure though might growl at a man who comes on to you; I love to cook/help cook whatever is served. Friends say I have a kind and generous nature and I do resemble my pictures.
My name is Hank and I have been described as honest,wise, driven,overly trusting, an excellent communicator, thoughtfull and patient. I've lived overseas,grew up in NYC and have been in the west since 1970. I spend time in Sun Valley and Bay area visiting my girls. I admire/cherish integrity and straight forward communication.CONFESSION: I funked MIND READING-101 badly. I am direct, sensitivevery affectionate and dont' like playing mind/mystery games.
I thrive on conversation that delves beneath the surface & undersatand the value of a LTR in my life. I resigned from several boards,support a local Charity that deals with Childen battling cancer. In my partner, I want the gentle, loving direction that a woman can provide as a homemaker, lover and friend. I've lived with horses 23 yrs, helped my girls learn about raising puppies, baby chicks/selling eggs but they also understand why I periodically hunt and that one always consumes our harvest.
As 4 you: be yourself, generous, live within your means, naturaly know how to minimize drama. Be a girly girl at the right times :*) Know that courting ingnites passion, that a satisfying union requires and is worth a little daily effort; know that our dreams come along with the power to make them happen, love animals, skiing, outdoors and kisses that never end! I don't want a perfect woman,just one that is perfect 4 me who wants a man that loves to take care of his family and vice versa.
I have stamina/energy and am very slow to anger.Not good with drama. I hug all my friends, love affection/PDA's and am very respectfull.
I retired at 47 to spend more time with my then 3 teenage daughters, grow grapes/make wine and explore REstate.
Unfortunately, for 27 months, my youngest daughter (now 23) bravely battled Leukimia. I've refocused my life and want the relationship with my life partner, that I hope my girls will try and emulate in their own lives. I'll not to waste time listing the obviously important DAILY little things that DO matter which we all see are a part of the fabric of those couples that do have splendid marriges. However, I must say that for me the telling a half truth is a whole lie.
Integrity is a must. I will not settle,(no matter how great you kiss or how cute you are), for anything less than complete honesty. It's that simple. Given that fundemental ingredient, a relationship based on respect is like watering a garden and chemistry is the sunshinethat will keep you together.
As for you: please be "completely done"with the last relationship :*) If you are jealous,can't provide constructive criticism, are trying to "line up" your next 'man',want friends with benefits, cannot handle too much yummy great wine...you are now moving onto the next profile....I don't want to "fix" someone (but im good at fixing things around the ranch). I want a GREAT friendship first...then...
I want 2 share the amazing life I have with someone who appreciates what it took to get here and gets that we should always better our best; that it's better to under~promise and over~deliver. I can do these things, iam an intensely loyal and would love to hear that you bring similar values to a lifelong~relationship. Good luck,thanks 4 reading.

Meet a soulmate from United States. hi there i am a 58yr old man living and working in santa ynez. im looking for a nice-decent -honest and trusting woman. i have a great scense of humor(and you must to or it just wont work)i i dont care to much for the fast paced nite life and dont do bars but i do like to go to dinner and have a drink now and then. i have 2 great boys 13 and 14. we like to camp and ride dirt bikes. im self employed in construction for over 30 yrs and love what i do. it would be nice to find someone with similar interests but at our ages im sure we would both have to bend a little bit. well are you out there?

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