Date men from United States / California / Mar Vista, 59 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I enjoy life and I’m entertaining. I have diligence, compassion, and generosity. I am a giving soul and reap much enjoyment when I’m helping others. Honesty is what I give and it’s what I expect to receive in return.
I seek peace and will do what is necessary to maintain it. This trait sometimes makes it easy for others to take advantage of me. I’m almost always doing for others. Helping anyway I can, but rarely ask others for help. Sometimes this can overwhelm and stress me, but I don’t mind.
When it comes to money, I enjoy spending more than saving. Occasionally I’m thrifty, but I know how to find great deals.
My wife died last year. She had been ill for a long time. Then, my step daughter and her 13 year old daughter moved in (for now) and we help each other as families do.
I'm a semi-retired building contractor who always seem to be more busy than I'd like.
I crew sail boat races when ever I can. Love the ocean!