Date men from United States / California / Walnut Creek, 53 year old

Date single man from Walnut Creek, United States. I asked what your motto is so here is mine, courtesy of Langston Hughes' poem "Motto":
I play it cool and dig all jive.
That's the reason I stay alive.
My motto as I live and learn
Is dig, and be dug in return.
Hughes also had some great "Advice":
Folks, I tell ya'
Birthin' is hard and dying is mean
So get a little lovin' in between.
I love how that man could distill!
Regarding his "Advice", though, I am hopeful to share "lots of lovin'" with one person. Of course, we would share struggles as well, but we would strive for more than our fair share of love, fun, wonderment and all of the better things that make the struggles worthwhile. So . . .
Are you laid back, but not lazy and uncaring? Great
Are you driven by certain things (work and / or causes and / or etc.), but know how to dial it back for a balanced life? Excellent
Do you respect others regardless of station, but know how to deal with people who don't? Fantastic
Are you artistic, but can appreciate the logic and patterns in life or conversely are you logical, but can appreciate the artistry all around us? Outstanding
Are you imperfect (like me), but always try to be a better you? "Perfect"
Can you discuss serious matters, but laughter is an integral part of your being? Unbelievable
If you are all (or most) of the above, then, like me, you are also probably fun to be with, romantic, thoughtful, intelligent (however measured), dependable, loyal, and genuine.
You are probably also independent, but know the value of having a shoulder that you can lean on when need be. You enjoy being together and talking (about anything from world events to the niggly little absurdities of life), traveling, or just sitting in silence together, but you also enjoy some space and time to be alone (or with your friends).
Also like me you may be a little shy at first, but really open up to those you get to know. On the other hand, you may be entirely outgoing, but not in an obnoxious way that makes people around you wondering where the heck the "off switch" is located or suddenly "remembering" they have another engagement they have to get to.
You are probably also close to your family however large or small it may be or at least know and appreciate the value of family. You also value your health and take care of yourself through good eating and exercise habits which means we could workout together to build up an appetite and then cook something healthy together. Or, you could put your feet up and cool down while I do the cooking.
You also know the value of splurging on "Death by Chocolate" or whatever other decadence you occasionally crave. (Mine is actually Boston Cream Pie!)
If this (or most of this) is you, let's start "digging" each other and see if it leads to something transcendent and most importantly, lasting.
(Oh, by the way regarding drinking, the next closest choice to "Never" is "Social drinker". I probably only have a couple of drinks a year. Not because I am against drinking (although I am opposed to excessive drinking) - it's just that a tiny bit of alcohol affects me too much. It does not bother me if my partner drinks while I have something non-alcoholic.)

Meet a man from Walnut Creek, United States. I love to travel, getting to know a foreign city intimately. I savor … the chance to spend hours in a museum, reading stories aloud, rich conversations, holding hands, books which rank as great friends, films, hosting dinner parties -- wine flowing -- spent laughing and talking with friends.
Courtesy of a job which regularly gives me the opportunity and incentive to explore art in Europe, I have a few restaurants in Rome and Paris where the owners greet me like I’m Norm walking into Cheers. It would be cool to have that here too. Even better, I like the idea of cooking together being special: you work together; you get to share the fruits; plus there are leftovers! Hopefully together we would be known for our hospitality. (Not that I'm a great cook, but I enjoy making pasta and soups from scratch.)
My friends say I’m a person of integrity, reliable, thoughtful, humble, and a good listener. Always a gentleman. Chivalrous too. Fortunately they also say I'm funny. Those who hear me speak always remark on my passion. I’m adventuresome, intellectually curious, and playful. I enjoy life and find myself laughing a lot, especially at myself, though on my own I can also be rather reflective. By demeanor, I tend to be other-centered and genuinely caring. I don’t give expecting to get back, but it should never be a one-way street. A mutual desire to see each other flourish is crucial.
What am I looking for? A beautiful smile is priceless, and intelligence is a must, but character counts far more. You’re definitely honest. Friends use words like “kind” and “nurturing” to describe you, but that list could go on and on: “adventuresome,” "playful," etc. "Classy" would be nice too. Ideally you have a range of interests and a curiosity to learn more. Oh, and it would help if you appreciate what it means for a partner to be passionate about both you and his work. I'm sure you'll hope for and expect a lot from me too. You'll inspire me to be a better person -- which is exciting since life is about growth. Hopefully we’ll become better people together, and better as a couple than on our own.
I'm looking for a true companion and friend. Someone who helps make the tasks of daily life a little lighter and who makes having fun even more enjoyable. While we'll strive to make sure the fun and romance aren’t forgotten, being honest with each other about our failures, being patient and forgiving while we try to learn to care for each other and overcome areas of insensitivity and selfishness, that’s probably closer to true love. We’re committed to working through challenges rather than walking away from them, learning to handle conflict in a way that builds intimacy rather than walls. We’re both striving to be the kind of person that each other can count on, celebrating our strengths and accomplishments, supporting each other in our insecurities.
Though planning ahead is great, hopefully you don’t mind spontaneous trips to the cinema, Napa, or even Paris. Since I love to travel, hopefully the idea of regularly spending a few weeks in Europe sounds appealing. Delusional as it might be, you might even be willing to speculate about slipping away for a year to Rome, Paris, or London. However, I never want to let thoughts about the future or dreams of travel diminish the importance of being fully engaged in the right now. Adventure comes in all sizes, and the little things we do for each other make the biggest difference.
You’re close to your family, or at least wish you were. I’m dedicated to my 89-year-old mother. She appreciates my calls, and when you know that, you know what you need to do. Speaking of families, love bears fruit in many ways. It will be rich just to see where it takes us. If kids are in our future -- ours, yours, whatever -- that would be amazing. If we are so lucky, what’s most crucial is a shared desire to raise them well. "Open to all possibilities" sounds better than any of the options that Match supplies.

Date someone special from Walnut Creek, United States. I'm a creative outgoing person. I like to hike and bike the beautiful bay area trails. I've achieved a work/life balance I'm happy with. I enjoy being with my friends and family. I'm intelligent and curious about the world. I try to keep an open mind and hope to get a better understanding of the world. I like to travel and would like to see more of the world.
I enjoy being a mentor to students at UC Berkeley. They seem to appreciate my advise.

Meet a soulmate from Walnut Creek, United States. Looking for that smile that fullfills us....those tender moments that can stop us both in our tracks..maybe a bit too hopelessly romantic ..Love to be riding my MT bike in some of the local bayarea open spaces ....I'm easy at finding the humor in everydays things, able to laugh at myself.. I love to sing and play music with my buds.....I have a serious interest in social change and I think that we owe something to each other.....not religious but willing and wanting to love more and worry less. Looking for a friend to share adventures and laughs and maybe something even more special... perfect day for me includes getting some exercise and some fresh air... a nice diner in or out maybe a beautiful sunset and some live music of (almost) any genre ....I'm hoping that you smile from the inside out and you have a keen interest in a broad array of things part nerd, part athlete, part spiritual warrior, with a smile that flashes eyes that show off your inner and outer beauty......I'm a firm believer in progress not perfection.....

Date single man from California, United States. I looking for somebody to be honest each other and after know each other better start for life I trust anybody if they can real friend each other and they was open mindend we can cantinuo lif to gether

Meet a man from California, United States. My friends describe me as a giver, and not a taker. They will also tell you that I work and play hard. I love to have a good time wherever I am at, I live life to the fullest. I am very close to my family, two younger sisters who both have awesome husbands. Looking to meet an attractive lady inside and outside, who is on the we program, and not the I program