Date women from United States / California / Sunnyvale, 58 year old

Date someone special from Sunnyvale, United States. So bye bye for now. I am still looking for that elusive spark but will began looking somewhere other than match after the 28th. So if you wish to contact me this is your last chance.
Who am I looking for? I am looking for the man who knows himself. You don't want (or need) to be changed.
I love to explore cities etc. I will walk all over to explore, but not big on dry dusty hikes. Like to bike for fun and to see what's around the bend. I do things for the joy of the journey not always to be first at the finish line.
I grew up in a Michigan college town which left me with liberal values and Midwestern ethics.
I smile at people I don't know, I hold open doors when needed, I believe in being kind and I am happy.
You are: Polished, professional, finished and insightful. You are always curious about me, yourself and the world. You stand up for what you love and believe in. You love to explore and are up for adventures or equally happy with a dinner/theater date or cooking dinner together and then relaxing in the backyard
I love exploring new restaurants, going to the live theater, ballet, symphony and movies. Not exclusively or excessively but so that I have time enough to do everything else, not obsessive, if you are, probably not a match. Definitely well rounded (not in body) should describe you. Not afraid of PDA, enjoy holding hands when walking, I like that connection that says you are the one and I like being close.
Love to be in the water in Hawaii, and who doesn't love Paris but I would love to explore Fiji and go back to New Zealand. Used to say wanted to rent a small villa in Provence and spend some time exploring with day trips but it doesn't seem to be something anyone else has on their list so I guess I will have to find just a friend to go on that adventure with. I also love to cuddle up on the couch and watch an old movie or fall asleep curled around each other
Other small bits, I am financially stable, own my home, incredibly cheerful, only get very angry very fast at dishonesty or betrayal, forgive easily, apologize when I am wrong and admit my mistakes, am responsible, great in an emergency but appreciate a supporting mate post crisis, unusual mix of expressive and analytical, loyal and supporting, direct and decisive, sweet and warmhearted, occasionally naive and believe all people are honest (I know, sigh), love being affectionate and loving and silly. I laugh easily and occasionally cry at movies, I would rather dress up than down, like skirts more than trousers, love fashion and museums. I am interested in almost everything, do bring on what you like and I will give it a go. I am an adventurous diner as long as it isn't slimy or a baby [exception shrimp and vegetables]. I am not obsessive about anything and prefer a mate with diverse interests. If you can't remember when you stepped out of your comfort zone, we aren't going to be a match.
Please have a current picture, within 1 year and accurate age please. It shouldn't be hard for me to identify you. I have tried to grant you the same courtesy. I am very easy to meet much harder to keep. Unfortunately I won't be bowled over by your charisma if you don't match who you say you are. It may be superficial but I put effort into looking my best to meet you, I care about how I look so I hope you try to be your best too. Sorry to be crabby about this, but really?
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