Date women from United States / California / Placentia, 58 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I have a strong tie to my family. They are what is most important to me. I'd like to meet someone of the same mind set. I also have a strong work ethic and believe that nothing is handed to you just because you were born, you need to earn it.
I can't stand hearing he phrase, "That's not fair" in response to life's situatons. If someone told you life is supposed to be fair, well they lied to you, get over it.
I'm proud of my kids, they all turned out prettty darn good. Not one of them has been arrested, not one of them is a drug addict or convicted felon. They all have steady jobs and work their butt's off for thier families.
I'm grateful thwt their father and I meant and made it to "til death do us part". He was my soul mate(I really dislike that phrase but it fits)
I am not looking for that type of relationship again. I am just looking for a friend, someone to spend time with.