Date women from United States / California / Montclair, 58 year old

Date someone special from Montclair, United States. I want to find my soulmate. I want to take my time for know each other not a run situation.
I am patient and I like to respect other decision but if something one not like me I will say inmediately.
If I find a good friend is good, and if I find my soulmate it will be great, I know he will have a good place on my heart I will respect him.
If it comes, I want to share my life the rest of my life I do not want play. I want to be the first in his life, somebody sweet, respect.