Date women from United States / California / San Clemente, 58 year old

Date someone special from San Clemente, United States. I am a positive person filled with good energy who is happy and content with life but would love to find someone to share it with. I believe in angels and think that we are all connected and what affects one affects us all. I like being a woman and consider myself outgoing but find I do get shy at times. I am truly a lady and by that I mean I like to wear sun dresses, take long bubble baths with candles, salts or oils, I am sincere, honest, kind, genuine, polite, good mannered and true to my word. I keep both my mind and body in good shape,, usually have a slight bikini tan, love satin and lace , soft hands and feet, pink sweatshirts, skinny jeans, high heels likes real flowers in a vase, bakes homemade desserts, lipstick, shaven legs and underarms(whew! who couldn't), giggles at funny things and laughs at good jokes, doesn't use crude language but can be heard cussing once in a while ( not much though!) Sometimes a girly-girl other times a tom boy. Comfortable in her own skin and likes men! I enjoy classic cars, live bands, concerts, plays, art gallery showings, wineries, eating at the local's spot , sports events,, candlelight of any kind, romance and comedy. I am looking for a man that loves the similarities and differences in men and women and can appreciate the value of a "great" relationship. Cute, charming, beautiful smile and someone who can have messy hair , worn jeans, be rugged and relaxed or put on a suit or tux and still feel comfortable with himself. Intelligent, able to share thoughts and ideas and likes good conversations about all sorts of things from music to world affairs.IF he has children he loves and cherishes them and has been a good father and mentor. The person I am looking for is athletic and somewhat fit, cleanliness a must, "fashionable" is nice, and likes to cook and/or wine and dine, or barbecue outdoors. A "gentle" man who wants a partner, friend, comrade, and lover. Someone who will lay down beside you or pick you up when you are down and someone I can help to hold steady when he is off-kilter! The man I am looking for likes the idea of a beer or wine with a picnic lunch, listening to music under the stars on a warm summer night or will be the first to wrap a warm blanket around me in front of the fireplace when it is cold. He is caring , honest, sincere, lovable, a comedian, spiritual, still has some of that little boy in him, but there is never a question that he is truly a real man and a man of his word. He must have his own interests or hobbies and open to sharing his life and dreams with the right lady who has her own. He wants to be together but also respects each other's space at times. He wants to grow, thrive, live a good life and be willing to help and give to others by volunteer work or in other ways because he understands we can make a difference. He can work hard and then stop to play hard. Friends and family are precious and living life is something he does well! He likes to hold hands, pull me close, big hugs, long kisses( love, love, love these), and is a romantic at heart... because I am too. There is more to me as I suspect there is more to you...