Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am very "immature" for my age. By that I mean that it is very hard for me to believe that I have reached the dreaded middle age. In my head I'm still in my 30's. Above all else I love to laugh. I love to laugh so hard that it might be considered a core workout! It's a great feeling. I am spirited, curious, adventurous, interested, highly social and an introvert. These qualities, while divergent are what make me, me. I can be spontaneous (especially when it means fun and adventure) but also need some downtime to recharge. I am equally as happy out-and-about as I am at home with a great book. I am very comfortable with alone time but I believe that anything you do can be enhanced by those around you. I would love to find the right person to share all of this with but don't necessarily believe that marriage is the only answer.