Date women from United States / California / Montecito, 58 year old

Date someone special from Montecito, United States. A passion for love and life is an essential ingredient in all aspects of life........I have that passion and look for that in other's.
I am a "free spirit" very independent but totally loyal in friendship, love and life. If you become my partner and/or friend, I will always be there for you!!! I am full of spunk and can be (would LOVE to be) your best friend...!!!!! I don't do well with "controlling" people and/or insincerity in men (or anyone for that matter), so please be honest------it will get you EVERYWHERE!!!!!
I have met in life people who have wasted my life (and theirs) and people who have added to my life and taught me many things. I love life and wish to live it to the fullest so please, don't waste my time if you have no character or integrity or any idea of where you are going or what you want. I've led an exciting life and have traveled extensively (although I have MUCH more to see) and have a VERY healthy curiousity about the world, it's inhabitants, different cultures/lifestyles, etc. and travel first class whenever possible....:-) Although, depending on the destination, first class might be compared to a great camp site in the USA...or in Africa!!!
I have been called a "renaissance woman" and considered eccentric by some (which I consider a compliment) since I have had at least 4-lifetimes (so far)....:-) One as a semi-professional singer, an entrepreneur (have had my own business without going to college for 30-years as an accoutant), an inventor, a motivational speaker as well as having been married to an internationally known art dealer.......so, was also in the "Art World" for 16-years.........and had the great pleasure of meeting many well known artists and traveling to wonderful places/countries.......:-)
Romance me......prove YOU are the one by being intelligent, sincere, honest, loving, romantic, kind, sensual and sexual. I am looking for a man who has learned from his relationship "lessons" in life. Someone who is NOT bitter or sad but wise and wonderful. A special man who wants to share his life, someone who is over his past "situation(s)" and is really ready to find the last best (female) friend and love of his life. I do not respond to winks or profiles without pictures.