Date men from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 55 year old

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. I love being out doors, riding, walking or just playin and enjoying it all. I want to do new things with someone who wants to do the same. I love to laugh and have a good time. But I'm serious about my relationships. With my family and someone I care for. Just be happy and care about yourself and be willing to feel the wind in your face on a Harley. I'm not impressed with what you have, more with what you feel and how I make you feel. I love life and want to share it with someone fun and happy.

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. I am a single Dad. Apparently I am dedicated to my children's well being, my health and helping others achieve their goals thru my work with them. I have started to feel better than ever before both about myself and the world around me. I am gateful for the opportunities in front of me each and every day. It has been a journey I would not trade for anything, as the challenge of it all has given me greater grater grace for myself AND others. Forgiveness and gratitude are powerful.
YOU: Kind. Warm. Grateful. Positive. Balanced. Fit. If drinking is a focus (necessity) of your everyday experience we probably won't be a match. If health, wellness, helping others, growing continually and laughing until your pants fall off is then that's a great start!
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Date single man from Santa Barbara, United States. Pushing the limit is a normal state of being; always within the ethical limits! I am an engineering executive that starts companies and sells them. In some sense, I am an artist who uses technology as may canvas. I work hard and play hard. I am not a limp-fish engineer. Quite to the contrary, you will find my sense of humor dry, witty, of the cuff and hard to know if I am joking or not; if it’s extreme, it’s a joke!
At the same time, engaging in philosophical discussion is a favorite. Whether it be 10 dimensional space, Herman Hesse, or some other obtuse tangent you will find me engaged.
I am sensitive and loving; enjoy long encounters of discussion…
I am a social and political liberal. Pay plenty of taxes and think the rich should pay and pay more. I have been a social democrat all my life. I have not really changed, however, by today’s standards, I may be a commi-pinko!
You will find me shopping in Trader Joe’s to purchase 2 or 3 days of food, only to give it away to the homeless before I get into the car; yes a bleeding heart liberal!

Meet a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm a pretty normal guy. Sophisticated in some ways, simple in others. Looking for the chemistry, the compliment, the look of love. It's always fun to discover each other. Never "work" on a relationship, it's better to have fun with it.
I've lived in Santa Barbara for most of my life, but traveled to the world's 4 corners too. I try to stay away from the golf courses - those take way too much time. I would sooner play tennis with you. I'm technical, yes, but also artistic. Piano has been my favorite instrument and after so many years, I'm still learning how to play. Look for me on State St., a strada in Italy, a beach in Maui, but you can also find me at the america place. Hope to talk soon.

Date a soulmate from United States. I am a kind man and resecpt woman,never do I hit a woman I will just walk away. If she was able to hit me I would take it like a man and leave.I dont think this will ever happen. I love the truth and will do anything to please my mate before i worrie about my self I love to take a long time when in that mode I never rush a good thing I savor it I drink a good beer once in a while, but that is only 1 or 2 times a month or sometimes not for a few months I smok, but have been trying to quit maybe you could help I am looking for a sweet woman that is not stuck on herself. As far as men go all the woman I have been with in my life say that I treat them like no other guys have I do what I can to please my mate and shower them with small gifts all the time , and try to make them feel like whets he going to do next. this keeps the relationship new and exciting flowers and small things are what grils like to have the little things that show you care and that is what a woman wants is to feel like she is the queen and my woman is my queen

Meet someone special from United States. I’m proud of the diverse experiences I’ve enjoyed, endured, and learned from. I feel like I can go anywhere and talk to anyone about anything.
I want a full connection... spiritual, intellectual, physical, and emotional -- Connect on all 7 chakras! I'm clean, educated, open to new things, passionate about living, spiritually aware... As I grow in my maturity, I appreciate and prefer a more feminine woman.
I am looking for an emotionally mature lover/friend to play with, love and marry... Adventurous, athletic, discreet, intelligent -- a take anywhere kind of girl.
Fashionable (I like the styles in the Boston Proper catalog), self-sufficient, independent yet wants to be with me, knows who she is (and isn't), easily expresses her desires -- says what she really means.
A partner in personal development who will continue in growth together -- you're teachable and open to truth, feedback and growth no matter how painful it might be at first (I am not your therapist, but I want someone with the courage to go on that journey with me.)
We appreciate, enjoy, and respect everything about each other.
You'll forgive me when I blow it and not think that's all that I am.
Although I have been with several 'soul mates' with whom I have evolved, I’m looking for my forever life-partner.
I want us to be hot for each other, talk about everything, do stuff together, be good for each other, inspire each other, feel that full connection...
Sexy, lusty, a bit kinky!
Build our relationship with more love, connection and understanding.
Ideas flow through me constantly—they come from Spirit and I run with them.
I make connections and have revelations daily. I want my life to morph to a place where we are at a level where our flow and reach can do the most good.
I have a lot to tell, so I will start (please consider this as an ongoing project!):
* I like listening to music that makes me want to move. I am a fan of Gabriel Roth’s 5 rhythms concept – think of it as a moving meditation.
* I’ve been working on my relationship mentality for several years now with a therapist – certain repeating patterns compelled me to seek expert advice.
* Likewise, please be complete with your father, mother, childhood, etc. (I'm not your daddy and I don't want you to be my mommy.)
* Please be complete with long-lost boyfriends (the one that got away back when) -- so they don't reappear and compel you to abandon me.
* I am amazed at how powerful I am... things happen / change when I clear an un-supportive thought pattern.
* I like living in what I would call a “contemporary / rustic” home (not a mcmansion; no picket fences; no Martha Stewart). Please, no frilly window coverings, plates on walls, or a living room no one ever uses, just a few antiques (I grew up in a museum... "Don’t touch or sit on that!”) I like leather furniture.
* I like fixing up my home in many ways – light fixtures, knobs, dimmers everywhere, flame bulbs, (fluorescent lights ugh!)… I like things to work smoothly. Friends laugh when I bring over a can of Teflon spray, but when the squeaking/sticking stops… :-)
* I enjoy landscaping… favorites are redwoods, grasses, palms, Japanese maples, fruit trees, bamboo…
* I like to listen to rock 'n roll very loud in my car.
* I fly airplanes. I am instrument rated, used to own a Beech Bonanza and I want another airplane… You like flying!
* I’ll work harder, be more creative in order to buy quality things – I hate cheap stuff.
* I feel compelled to make a contribution to the world. I’m still working out what exactly that is!
* I enjoy helping others with their businesses -- seeing good ideas come to life and provide solutions
* I can fix just about everything around the house. I still call electricians / contractors to come do things. I’m good at managing them.
* I like to live in a clean space (but I’m not OCD).
* OMG this guy sounds great, but I’m actually afraid of getting together for real…

Date single man from United States. I have no idea what to say here. I don't really like to talk about myself, let alone write it down. I'm looking for a nice girl-woman-friend to spend some time with. This thing won't let me finish unless I write more so I'll just babble here.

Meet a man from United States. Self employed tile setter animal lover hiker surfer fisherman would like to meet a future long term partner, i dare you lets chat .i know we all have our expectiactions of a partner , but talking is good .