Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am playful, positive woman with bright blue eyes and an adventurous streak. I'm honest, outgoing and energetic yet enjoy evenings at home or cooking a meal together in the kitchen while sharing a bottle of wine with someone special. I'm a Charger fan and yes...I'm one of "those" people who put up a Charger flag every time they play. I have a Can Am Spyder and enjoy rides through the mountains with friends. I like BBQ's with family and friends and puttering around in my garden. Anyone interested in trying a new hole in the wall restaurant or taking a walk along the water?
This segment of my life has been very satisfying for me. My kids are grown, I'm financially stable and I finally have the time to do some of the things I've put off for years. I'm a woman who speaks her mind and who can take care of herself. I'd like to move forward with someone who is in the same place at this point in life. The qualities that matter most to me are honesty, humor, optimism and a desire to try new things. If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other.
Meet someone special from California, United States. A note to introduce myself to you, appreciate you taking your time to read my profile. Please bear in mind that if we both find a connection, I will want to meet you in person and not spend hours e-maiing or texting you. I believe we need to meet face to face to determine if we "click". Even if our likes and views align, nothing compares to seeing you in person and being able to converse with you.
I was born in New York City to first generation European immigrants, but was raised in Europe (Italy and Greece mostly). My stepfather worked for the Italian Foreign Service so my family moved quite a bit across the globe. I was raised tri-lingual (Italian, German and English) and added four more languages to the original ones later in life. I studied here in the USA (German Literature as an undergraduate and then a master's in educational psychology).
As you can see from my pictures (all very recent), I am fortunate to look much younger than my chronological age. In fact, my most significant relationship partners have been years younger than me. I believe age is just a number and what counts is having the necessary energy and drive to enjoy life to its fullest, so it does not matter to me if you are younger or older...as long as you and I can share an active lifestyle, all is good.
I really love taking care of my appearance and value being feminine. I like all the fun you can have being well dressed, sweet smelling and nicely groomed, but can also get sweaty and trek with you in the jungle. I work full time as a school psychologist and special education program administrator. I enjoy what I do, my job is not my life, but it is important to me. I own my home, am financially stable and have no children. I am divorced, happy on my own, but open and wishing to meet the right person to share the joys of life with. I am not religious at all, however I meditate regularly (Vipassana meditation). I am physically active, and frequent the gym regularly without being a "gym rat". I enjoy walking, hiking, Bikram yoga, working out and keeping mind and body in good shape. I am healthy and strive to keep it that way. I love animals, traveling, reading, music, art and good food. I am a great friend and partner, and will totally spoil the man I care for. I abhor drama, as well as possessive and needy men. I look forward to meeting a secure, happy, established man that can share his interests, heart, body and soul with me. My ideal match is an active, smart, well educated and fit person that values a healthful lifestyle. My political views are progressive and I chose to see options and possibilities in my life. I have travelled the world quite a bit and enjoy new places and experiences. I believe in having a common foundation and just enough differences to make our match interesting. I am not looking for my mirror image. I am looking for a mate - I respect and welcome what you bring to our partnership. Last but not least, I believe laughter and having a good sense of humor are essential to well being. I am grateful, optimistic, loyal, interesting, funny, attractive and well balanced. I am interested in the world in all its beauty and variety. I expect my partner to share a desire to expand his knowledge base and to live life with a positive attitude. I do not misrepresent myself in ANY way and have faith you are comfortable enough with yourself to be real. You are who you are - and exactly that is fine with me.