Date women from United States / California / San Diego, 42 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I find joy in the simple things-a smile from a stranger, someone doing a good deed, laughter, a great cup of coffee in the morning. I hope to find someone who smiles a lot and says silly things that make me giggle. I want to do the same for them. My friends would say that I am very open and loving. Super easy to talk to and a little crazy (fun) not crazy (psycho) ;) I would love to meet someone who is active, motivated to be their best and bring out the best in me. He should also know how to kick back drink a beer or glass of wine and watch the grass grow too. Life is good in the fast & slow lane!

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am very comfortable wit being singal. I enjoy work'n out daily & I am not one to argue! luk'n for a man that dosn't need a women to compleat him. he needs to comfortanle with who he is as a man. I dont do well with jelous men!

Date someone special from California, United States. So I popped in for a look-see, as I've done here and there in the past, and read my old profile and was somewhat mortified--did I really publicly post that?! Zoiks! It appears that, in an attempt to save people time, my profile might have come across a tad... I don't know... control freaky?! Not great, anyway. So let's try this again... (Getting the feeling now that I didn't do much better with this one... d'oh! [face-palm])
I have to admit that I'm not a veteran of the dating scene, and this online dating thing is outside my comfort zone, so please bear with my inadvertent bungling. If it helps, people say I'm a lot like Helen Hunt was in Mad About You (with a little Elaine Benes thrown in, having always been "one of the guys"--but I'm a better dancer!). I'm pretty happy and comfortable with my life as it is but was thinking it might be time for a bit of a jolt--so here I am. You should probably know up front that I'm all about keeping it real--from not wearing makeup to just being myself, not willing to conform to anyone's ideal just to make myself more appealing.
About me, you ask? I was born a poor black child... (sorry--I actually used that in my personal essay for entrance into UCSD back in the day... and, yes, it worked!) I'm a childfree, eco-minded, nature-loving, non-conformist liberal who really doesn't like to take life too seriously (most of the time, at least!). I have a great group of friends and the rare distinction of having a job that I love (with a lot of time off--bonus!!). I do make less money than some of you seem to want but make enough for what I need and refuse to carry debt. That said, I'm selective about where I spend my money and simply can't justify spending a lot on nice restaurants and the like--and am not (please see the "not") one of those women who thinks men should have to pay for everything, so I tend to lean toward free/inexpensive dates. Honestly, I probably wouldn't do fancy/pricy even if I was rich (just not into "keeping up with the Joneses", "luxuries" and such)... so, if you're OK with that, keep reading.
Regarding body type... I'd say I'm more "fit" than "athletic and toned" (though, with someone to exercise more with, that would change quickly). I'm not into gyms; my exercise comes in the form of evening walks at Miramar Lake or the beach and hiking (OK... and Wii). I have a kayak that's dying to stop being wall art, would love to have a guy teach me to surf, and could get into riding... but if you ever see me running, it means something's chasing me (even then, I'd be compelled to just curl up and play 'possum!).
I tend to avoid people who are jealous, possessive, controlling, insecure or who need 24/7 contact (aka smothering); spending time together is great, but you need to be OK with time apart as well. If you believe in and put effort into a true partnership, have a great sense of humor, aren't "too cool" to be goofy, have respect for the environment/nature and like to be outdoors (hiking, camping, etc), can carry on intelligent conversation (intelligence and sense of humor are my major turn-ons), love to travel, would prefer a deserted island over big-city chaos, don't bleed red-white-and-blue (I dream about retiring elsewhere), aren't obsessed with your phone, don't feel the need to flaunt money and don't need a "girlie girl" on your arm, we're on the right track. If you have or want kids, jump off the train now... that's a non-negotiable (you also need to like cats). I can be somewhat passionate about political issues (not an activist, though, if that's how that reads!), so if you support today's Republican party, we won't be a good match. I'm also not too big on organized religion, so if it's central to your life, you'll want to skip me. Ya, I have a mind and opinions and know how to use them. ;-)
Bonus points if you actually read this whole novel! Act fast though... this is a limited time offer (and I'm not a paid member yet, but I left breadcrumbs)!

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'm originally from the northwest, went to school in Arizona, and have been in San Diego for quite some time now. I love to laugh and enjoy being around people with a good sense of humor as well as a good conversationalist. I enjoy yoga and most outdoor activities which include hiking, mtn bike riding and snow skiing. I love to travel and always have a trip scheduled on the books. I'm self employed and secure with my career. I love dogs, but don't own one at the moment, just a cute cat who is bigger than most small dogs! Would like to meet someone who wants to share their life and who is open and available for a relationship.

Date a woman from United States. I am looking for a man who is good=looking in the face, one that pursues personal fitness, although body type is not as important to me as the mind, soul, and heart. One who is well-educated and secure in his career or secure with the path he has chosen. I prefer not to date a man without young children at home with him and I don't like grey hair so dye it if you must.
I am sweet, caring, posess an inquisitive and a probing intellect, and I like to continually seek personal, and spiritual growth.
I can be funny/compassionate/passionate, can find the humor in life situations, person with alot of spunk and drive, and I like the icing on the cake better than the cake. I work out and love to travel, movies, museums, music, reading.
I will add more in the future about personal experience, personal favorites, etc., there are not enough hours in the day for me!

Meet someone special from United States. Who I'm looking for....A gentlemen!!! I'd like to meet a man that knows how to treat a women with respect....
I have lived in San Diego my whole life. I would never move any where else. I have such a awesome Career /Boss (ME) I don't need Vacations..... My clients have traveled over the whole entire world and when I ask where they'd rather be they say here :) enough said! I do however frequent Disneyland quite often though I prefer to go alone, however someone else tagging along might be a nice change. I make my own schedule so it's nice to take off whenever I want! I currently work in La Jolla, Hair is my passion.. I LOVE my career .
I am a very Responsible, Self confident, Creative, Independent, Successful, Fun, Ambitious, Woman.
I turn drama (which I avoid at all costs) into a positive learning experience!!!
About you...... Your smile and confidence that you portray to the world, should show in your pictures. It shows me how happy you already are without someone in your life. Which is very important to me!!! If your only picture is you wearing sunglasses what are you hiding??? I am very content in being alone. I would never rely on a man to make me happy. I would hope that you are the same way. You will never hear me complain about anything, why bother it doesn't make things any better now does it?
I've been told I live a charmed life. I'd like to thank that God for that!!!
Things that make me laugh, reading profiles and laughing with my girlfriends over the funny pictures.
Well what are you waiting for give it your best shot!
Oh your cookies are done gotta go!
Kat

Date a soulmate from San Diego, United States. Easy to get along,sweet loyal.Love to travel go for walks beach,movies,listen to music,go out dining love flamenco and spainard culture just stay and chat. Want to know what your all about get to fill you.

Meet a woman from San Diego, United States. Only I need a company. I want to have a friend, is important to have someone who to speak and to dance and dinner out, we can to do to much things together. I am ver conservative but i love to dance and to drink my coffee with a good company.

Date someone special from San Diego, United States. im am a girl who lives in a house. i still live with my parents and i have no job. im lazy at doing things and im not a good help. :P im fat and i live in a baby room. No wonder people hate me so much i cry at night to wash away my tears

. I am a compassionate, caring and educated women. I consider myself having strong principles and moral as well as open minded and try not to judge anyone. I am honest, driven, always finding ways to learn and improve myself. I like meeting new people and hanging out with friends. I enjoy good conversations, learning, reading, dancing, walking, traveling, and food.
I value intellect, a warm loving heart, friendship, compassion, honesty, and wisdom. I believe in Karma. I would love to meet a caring, creative, honest, reliable, mature, driven, balances and stable friend. I have little time for fun and games and want meet someone special to share my time with... company... hopefully one day for life.
NOT INTERESTED ON MEN 40 OR YOUNGER . :).!!!!

. I am very active and fun! I love running, weight lifting, going to the beach and hiking. I have two children that I adore. I am looking for a sophisticated (but not pretentious), responsible, loving, kind, honest, and romantic man. I am really seeking a partner. I want someone who sits down at the beginning of the year and sets goals with me and then we work towards those goals together. I have a rather strong aversion to facial hair as well as ample amounts of body hair. I don't mean to be offensive - it's not something that I can control.
Away from the house, I enjoy a very wide range of things: from theater to movies, from professional sports to philanthropy and travelling. Most of all, I love preparing a beautiful meal for my family at home. I love cooking delicious healthy food inspired by many other cultures. I prefer the beach and warm sunny climates. I grew up in the Northeast. I gravitate to those who are from the East Coast. I don't play games and I am rather direct. I have a pretty strict diet, so typically Italian, Mexican and sushi are not in my diet.
Friends and family are very important to me. I have old fashioned values and I would like to meet a man with similar values and morals.
I have had two successful careers so far. I worked on Wall Street and I had a successful business in La Jolla that I sold a few years ago. I am currently having fun being a mom and pondering my next venture.
I don't respond to winks. If you are interested, please email me. I prefer to get to know each other by email / phone a bit before meeting. Thanks for your understanding.

. It’s complicated to describe yourself without sounding like a Hallmark card or like every other profile out there. I am a hopeless romantic but can easily be grounded when it matters most. I enjoy playful banter and fun sarcasm. I am a thinker and have a knack for stimulating conversation. I am as loyal as they come and will go through the fire for you. I am outspoken but not loud, honest to a fault, say it like it is because anything else is just a waste of time. I am a firm believer in "say what you mean and mean what you say”. I do not want to come across as being serious and harsh but instead, level headed, confident, and comfortable in my own skin. I am currently working on my internship hours for substance abuse counselor at a substance abuse facility in San Diego. It is challenging, since I have to leave judgment and countertransference at the the door when I walk in the building. I am a true believer that even broken individuals have goodness and have the capability of creating greatness in this world. I have always been on the side of the underdog, to help and create a possibility. Not easy but well worth it, for me..
As for my partner, humility is big…to be humble in any given situation recognizing we are all the same and should be treated equally, respecting those that are not as fortunate as us. He is witty and not overly complicated…in no way cocky or sarcastic but confident and secure with who he is. He has integrity and his "word" is good as gold. I do not necessarily have a set type but will know if there is chemistry based on your demeanor and core values.??