Date women from United States / California / La Habra Heights, 54 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I don't think most people enjoy describing themselves and neither do I but here goes:) I had a long term marriage and have been single 7 years. I have a very fulfilling career and am quite successful at it but am fortunate enough to have great hours. My friends describe me as witty, intelligent, classy, emotionally stable and attractive.
My two oldest children are now in College and I have my youngest still at home. I am very blessed in that I actually like my kids as they are quite passionate and kind people. I have great friends and family and don't do the bar scene so I have resorted to giving online dating a try as I would love to be in a great relationship ( do most people set out to be in a bad relationship? :) ).
I think bottom line partner "musts" for me are no brainers: kindness, generosity, intellectual curiosity, appreciation for family and friends. I do find I'm most attracted to men who have either an education or have had enough curiosity and/ or life experience to be able to converse on many topics and be open to life. A the end of the day with my perfect match I feel as though I've come home. He is funny, sincere, intellectually curious, loves trying new things. He must be forgiving of himself and others and have a great sense of family and friends. Someone who loves to travel and entertain would be a plus :)
When in a relationship I am patient, passionate, love to share interests including attending almost any sporting event, love to entertain or just relax at home.
I don't post my photo out of professional concerns but am happy to share upon request. My appearance has never been held against me:)