Date women from United States / California / Westwood, 54 year old

Date a woman from United States. I would love to meet a down-to-earth, friendly. well kept man, with a positive and generally pleasant approach to life. I go blind and deaf around doomsayers. Honesty, a kind heart, and a generous spirit are reflective of my own personality. My pictures are recent, yours are too, right? Be fun, adventurous, passionate, but not obsessive, confident, but not arrogant, intelligent and accomplished, and we have a great starting point. I realize this is a needle in the haystack sort of thing; you being the needle, and all the possibilities in that haystack, but if you send me an email that is meant for mass distribution, I am likely not to respond.
I don't have an absolute list defining the perfect person for me. I suppose we all re-arrange priorities based on our attraction to certain people. But these are constant traits in my unwritten list; a man confident, secure, and purposeful, yet who maintains a sense of humility. A man with an internal sense of what is or is not appropriate, good, right, or decent. A man without a need for pretense. And, while I wholeheartedly believe in taking care of one's body, the size of your heart and your mind is of more interest to me than the size of your bicep. . By the way, I love to dance, and while it would be a plus if you did, it's not a prerequisite. A quick smile, warm heart, and a tapping toe will do just fine.