Date women from United States / California / El Dorado Hills, 54 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Never did like to talk about myself.......but here goes: Don't have an amazing figure and I am far from being considered a model, (not to be confused with overweight) but I am ME. I eat real food and I have curves ( hourglass figure - tiny waist) - also have scars because I have a history. Love my PJ's and I will go without make up. Sometimes random and too serious - but mostly fun loving and outgoing....love to laugh, especially at myself. I do not pretend to be someone I am not- I am who I am and am a what you see is what you get kind of person - so you can accept that or not for I will not change and make no apologies for the way I am.
I was born and raised in New Jersey, moved to Myrtle Beach, SC back in the early 90's and ten months ago relocated here to California. I used to be the General Manager of a golf course in SC, so Golf is a passion. Unfortunately, when you work in the business didn't have the time to play. My game has suffered, just looking to enjoy the game and some good company. Back in my Jersey days- I was seriously into sailboat racing, and really enjoy the water and water activities.
Have started back at the gym, but not a fanatic about it. If you are fanatical about fitness we may not see eye to eye :-)
Some things you may want to know up front: I do NOT have.....tats of any kind, implants of any kind or piercings. I DO have a job, responsibilities, am stable, secure, honest and very independent! Please NO drama - been there and have no reason to revisit!
If you are interested in getting to know me - contact me and see where it leads.