Date women from United States / California / Pacifica, 54 year old

Date someone special from Pacifica, United States. I am a divorced mother of 2, who works hard to take care of them but at the same time loves to have fun and would love to have a companion, friend, lover that can accept my kids into our lives. I've become pretty independent but want someone to share my life with. Travel with, have fun with but to also be honest, respectful, responsible, trusting, not needy, romantic at times, remembers important dates, which I always do. Unselfish, and yes, someone that cares about their appearance but doesn't go overboard. Shares and tries to be as equal as possible. I do live in the real world so I don't expect miracles. No Drugs and I prefer a non smoker but can deal with it. Likes to go out to see music, dance, see comedy and have company over, go to friends houses for parties, social.