Date women from United States / California / Orinda, 54 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a bit of a firecracker. I was born and raised on the Jersey Shore, which makes a very sassy little Jersey Girl behind this polished professional. I've lived in California for 30 years now but can still bring out a "Jersey" accent when the situation calls for it. I have been told that I am a good communicator which may be at least in part because I enjoy using humor, which helps everyone to be more comfortable. I'm comfortable communicating my thoughts and feelings but also respect more private people. I believe there are lot of wonderful "normal variants" in humans. My medical training and specialty training as a Psychiatrist have allowed me to walk in many people's shoes. I am enriched by my career. I have been blessed with the ability to earn income to provide for my family while working at a job that I love. The most important thing I've learned from my career is that there is no greater gift than remaining resilient.
I'm looking for a man to share my life with. Relationships have a lot to do with timing and it's time for me to find a relationship that will, eventually lead to a lifetime committment. The internet helps sift through some of the important questions that deal with timing. You and I will know in advance each other's marital status, height and a capsule summary of what we are both looking for. I've seen quite a few wonderful relationships emerge from internet dating. Perhaps you and I will be one of those success stories.
Now let's have a little fun with the profile:
Help me spend all of the money that is coming to me any day from my Nigerian Banker. I am due millions any day for only sending a few thousand dollars. My Nigerian Banker friend says the money is coming any minute!
I'm looking for a fun intelligent man who hasn't been a "client" on "Intervention", "Jerry Springer", "Hoarders", "To catch a Predator", or "Americans most wanted"