Date men from United States / California / San Diego, 43 year old - page 2

Date a soulmate from San Diego, United States. I have to describe my self? Hmmmmmm, well! I am super charming, funny,witty and I know how to make people feel great about themselves! I am allways looking to have fun no matter what I'm doing even when the chips are down I try to find humor to lighten the mood-) I am very serious about my career and I work very hard, so when I have time to play I really enjoy myself! I surround myself with light hearted positive people. I am 43 but feel and look 10 years younger, I eat really well, excerise every day and try to keep distress to a minimum and Iam fortunate my parents passed down some awesome ganetics as well! I find when meeting new people to keep the pressure low and the expectations to a minimum. Ok,what i do! My career and passion , I am a full time soccer coach for a club in SD, I enjoy every moment of coaching and training children,super rewarding! I'm also part owner in a soccer store( I play soccer in a mens league too) the two go hand in hand! I'm into art and currently opening up an Art gallery. I am looking to just meet new people if it works great , if not well I don't take it personal, there are to many different personalities and expectations to win everyone ones approval! " Allways stay positive and look to progress every day in life" :) What I'm looking for in a woman! Compation, a warm heart,good personality and able to comunicate and compromise! Some one want's to be loved and taken care of!

Meet a man from San Diego, United States. I have a powerful contrarian streak even though my appearance wouldn't tell you that at all. I've an affinity to counter cultures and non- main stream ideas.
I am fun, curious, and open.
Here are random things about me;
1. I've trained to be on a workout infomercial (I didn't make it though!). It was about 4 mos long and I lost 15 lbs & 7% body fat (as of 8/6/11).
2. I play amateur baseball on Sundays.
3, I play chess when I can. It's a bit of a hobby of mine.
4. I was adopted as a baby. I met my Bio-Mom when I was 30.
5. I love music and would really enjoy a partner that could go with me in seeing DJs, bands, & events. This could be a variety of techno and live music.
6. I'm a bit of science nerd. I watch documentaries & talks from Scientists online.
7. I'm politically aware & think the most important civic duty we have is to attend Jury duty.
8. I'm left- handed but am nearly ambidextrous. I'm right- footed and play racket sports right- handed.
9. I volunteer; I've been on the board of San Diego Fine Art Society. I was a member of the Citizen's Client Lobby. Am the President of a Rotary Group.

Date single man from San Diego, United States. I am in my early 40's and divorced with 2 incredible boys that are with me pretty close to half the time. I have a fun career and enjoy the work no matter how stressful it can be at times. I even enjoy going to work on Mondays….believe it or not. I have flexibility at my job and it allows me freedom to be creative.
I am pretty open minded about life in general and have fun with most things I do. I smile a lot because I feel life gives us lots to smile about. Yep you guessed it; I am a “the glass is half full” guy. I can turn that frown upside down quickly.
I love to get out and get physical whether it be exercising, sports or playing with my boys. I don’t sit still very well, but am getting a little better at it. I much prefer to be outside at the beach, hiking, or surfing (after years of surfing I am a better faller than surfer…that’s alright I have other talents) than watching TV. Actually my 7 year old son is probably a better surfer than me.
So here is what I like to do: I enjoy walking, hiking, movies, trying a new recipe (not very creative but can follow a mean recipe), socializing whether it be over at friends or families house, beach trips (bonfires I dig on), work get togethers and live music. Most importantly I love doing whatever my boys are into at the moment….soccer, basketball, swimming or finding a new killer playground.
I feel like I am very good at conversation and enjoy doing just that with the right person. Can be chatty, but I think that is a part of what makes me “ME”.
Have fairly liberal political and social views, yet am open to every ones opinions. (With the exception of extremes) That makes the world go round and makes for fun talks.
Feel like I have a whole bunch to give to some woman, my personality allows me to mix with most people...and enjoy experiencing new things. Family and friends are a priority to me, here is what I am looking for in a woman: a honest, affectionate (someone that doesn’t mind a peck on the cheek at the stop sign or holding hands), stable but has a little goofiness in them Because family is such a priority for me a woman that has kids but if not, someone that can love mine. I am not looking for someone to replace the boys mom, they have one of those. Able to communicate, I don’t mean a degree in relationships or searching for total inner peace, just able to communicate one adult to another. Hopefully laughs a lot and a serious connection. These are not conditions of inclusion or exclusion, just some things I would like to see and traits I already have…which COULD make a seriously fun connection.
I look forward to hearing from you….go a head and give us a try.

Meet someone special from San Diego, United States. This is my second time trying online dating. I have met and dated what I consider to be some quality people using this, so I know there's potential to meet someone that could be a great match for me. Even though I'd prefer to be in a committed relationship, I've got a friends-first approach to using this. I really don't have a particular type I'm looking for. I know different couples 'click' in different ways, so I'm looking forward to seeing what happens!

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm new to the online community and have never really looked into the internet to date. I'm mostly curious to see who's out here and where this may take me. I feel to be a modern man I may have to try some modern things to find the right girl. My hopes are, that this is fun and I can meet some new friends or possibly more. I am not looking for perfection, as I am not. I enjoy active and athletic things, Surfing, skiing and anything outdoors. Counter to this I can hang out, watch movies, read and do other indoor activities. I really enjoy humor, and some sarcasm. I would like to meet a girl who is empowered and comfortable in her own skin. I am blessed with many friends, my own business and the freedom to set my own schedule. I want to find the girl who appreciates that, and also has her own life and goals in front of her, as I really respect that. I'm hoping to experience a new way to date and meet some interesting women or possibly more....

Meet a man from California, United States. I've been a member of Match.com for a little while now, and I've noticed some common (and hilarious) threads of interest among the women of Southern California. I'd like to take a minute to break it down for you, ghetto style, so you can recognize the following horrific cliches.
ReadySetGo!!!!
"Seeking a man that's at least 6 feet tall. I like to wear high heels" - Damn, totally boned here. I'm only 5'9 or maybe 5'10', apparently equaling "somewhere between midget and elf, and therefore undatable", even though the average American male height is 5'10. And 6 feet tall? What kind of shoes are you wearing anyway? Some sh*tfrom the lunar landing? Next...
"Must love animals" - Great... You mean I have to pretend to like your floofy poodle/chihuahua/norway rat mixed breed long enough to maybe earn some kisses? Or that huge mastiff that's physically capable of kicking me out of your bed? How about the cat that's contemplating using my balls as a scratching post every time I walk around in my boxers? I think I'll exit stage right before the ****er eats my socks again.
"Looking for a God-fearing man" - I get the biggest kick out of this one. Why would you be afraid of your own imaginary friend? Seems like you'd better imagine something a little less hostile. I'd suggest Papa Smurf.
"Must like the outdoors" - Barring a select few dweebs I've met that live in their parents' basement and mainline Mountain Dew so they can play World of Warcraft for 87 hours straight, most human beings like being outside at some point. Sure, I'll go for a day hike with you. Does that mean I want to live in the woods for a month and wipe my ass with a pine cone? No thanks!
"Looking for friends first" - Cool, I'm always down for more friends. Wait, what's that you say? Your hot friend Brittany is single? Excuse me while I ask her for her phone number.
"Must love children" - Unlike the mighty lion (who will kill and eat cubs from rival males) I say the more kids, the better! We can open our own sweatshop and they can make you shoes. I call being the manager!
"I like having fun" - Whew, what a relief! I'm meeting too many people these days that think having fun sucks. I'm a big fan of fun myself! We have so much in common.
"Must like to dance" - Really? Have you ever met a straight guy that wants to go dancing? Wait, I take that back. I do know one guy, but he's from Puerto Rico or something. Come to think of it, he's probably gay. That's right, Jorge - I've got you figured out.
"I like going out, but also enjoy staying in for a quiet night at home" - That's great, because staying home or going out and doing something are pretty much the only two options you have.
So in conclusion, I say the luck of the Irish be with you lovely ladies of Southern California in your search for a badass Daniel Craig-era James Bond lookalike that will dance the Macarena with Mr. Cuddlekins the Poodle whilst purchasing you an all-expenses-paid vacation to Maui. Just keep in mind that Mr. Bond is only 5'10.
****Oh, and if you can break the bounds of the above mentioned issues (and you're hot) send me an email.

I am 43, 5'10, 190, hazel eyes, moustache and goatee, and I shave my head. I have 2 kids, a girl and a boy, she is 17 and he is 15. They live with their mother in Florida I have been in sales for 20 years. I like to race cars (drag racing) and just love late 60's, early 70's American muscle cars. I like to go out to the movies, bars, shoot pool and concerts (no disco). I have been told I am very funny and clever. I am brutally honest and open minded. I am just a regular guy who will treat you right.

Date single man from California, United States. Hey Now!
I'm a transplant from New Jersey. I've been in San Diego for two and a half years, and couldn't be happier that I made the move. I love to be outside and enjoy the SD weather. I'm spontaneous and I know how to have fun. I love playing all types of sports, and always up for trying something new. I think I make the best out of all situations.
My family is very important to me, although most of them are still in NJ. I value my family and friends and would do anything for them. I am a man of my word. I am dependable and reliable, and look for those qualities in anyone I date, or that I am friends with. I believe everything happens for a reason, and we all have the best days ahead of us. Life is a learning experience, and you need to take chances. I am very sarcastic though, so I hope you can take a joke.
I know how to treat a lady, and know how to spoil one. I like a woman who is independent. Someone who is happy with herself, and her life… and the right person would only make things better. I like women who are funny and adventurous. I have my romantic side, and I love to cook dinner for someone special. Italian food is my specialty.
That's it in a nut shell, so I look forward to talking to you, and good luck.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am an energetic, intelligent, passionate and fun loving person who is looking to find that "unique" connection with someone. I wear my heart on my sleeve and believe in being expressive with emotions as so often that drives who we are and how we interact in the world. I am natural talker and quite gregarious so if you are a "wall flower" then we might not mesh.... (after all I am a Sagittarian.....lol ) I also pride myself on being a good communicator and someone who is ok with being vulnerable at times and I look for the same in another. The ability to have open and honest dialogue ...and really "listen" in a relationship seems to be a "lost art"...haha
I also enjoy new experiences of all types and embracing "life" and all its many gifts. I think opening ourselves to new ideas and new experiences only enriches us and promotes growth and allows us to evolve. I think to stay grounded it's so important to try and work from a place of gratitude as nothing is promised in this world. So often we look externally for what is already inside of us and thus end up seeking our "truth" in the wrong ways. One of my favorite quotes says is best...." When we create harmony in our minds and hearts, we will find it in our lives. The inner creates the outer...Always"
As for what I am looking for in someone....I am attracted to someone who is comfortable in their own skin. Someone who is honest, loyal, confident, sarcastic, goofy (can laugh at themselves), spontaneous, adventurous, compassionate, passionate, loves a good laugh, and who can go from flip flops and jeans to a great pair of heels and getting dolled up for a night out. (BTW...love a great pair of shoes on a woman....did I say that out loud? ...lol) Not asking too much am I?... ;o)
I am all about exploring new restaurants, traveling, (nothing like a Road Trip on spur of the moment ), concerts, sporting events, museums, wine tastings, the TRACK! (nothing like the pageantry of Opening Day at Del Mar), outdoor festivals, hanging at the beach, a night out on the town , or sometimes just a "good ole fashion" lazy Sunday with a big breakfast and not a thing on the agenda. Good times!
Overall, to bring it in for the real thing .......someone who is open to a more profound connection that is predicated on honesty, respect, loyalty and love. Connection is in our DNA and naturally draws us to one another. Let's see if we can make it happen...........I think friends first is always key and if something develops then maybe we run with it.
For those of you who are fans of movie quotes...."Good talk"......(and if you know that one....I bet you know more ;o)

Date a soulmate from United States. Hi there and thanks for checking out my profile. I'm a very easy going white male looking for an Asian or Pacific Island woman.
I love music, all food, traveling and hanging around good people. I enjoy the outdoors (beach, barbacues, festivals).
I'm looking for a long term relationship with the right person. Could this be you?