Date men from United States / California / Fremont, 43 year old

Date single man from California, United States. I am Japanese Irish... that should say a lot.
I tend to be shy and reserved on the outside, but under that is a little bit of a wild side. Just a little ;)
I am a martial artist, play piano, love dancing especially salsa, database programmer, manager, potiential race car driver, movie buff, leader, former business owner, visonary, inventor, father, friend and much more.
I am a single dad but my daughter is grown and doesn't live with me.
Really all I am looking for is someone to hang out with. Just a simple coffee or a drink... maybe a causual dinner or movie would be nice or just a long scenic drive.
I like to think of my self as a sincere, faithful, dedicated, attentive person but also a very private, one-on-one type of person with only a handful of close friends.
If you are looking for a tall,dorky guy, then I am NOT the right person for you. I am NOT a football,basketball,baseball, beer drinking fan either.
But... that doesn't mean I dont like to have fun. I like to get out and have some fun to start. I enjoy collaboration... doing a project together with someone can be very fulfilling to me. Plan a nice day out, plan a trip, build something, do a movie marathon, learn something new together... those things make a relationship much more interesting.
If you are interested in the kind of person I am and this type of relationship, I look forward to hearing from you.
Until then,
Paul

Meet a man from California, United States. Looking for a friend to get to know and take things slow at first and see what the future holds. Ultimately hoping to find a serious girlfriend and more, but everything starts as friends, right?
Find enjoyment in most "normal" things like movies, sporting events, museums, festivals of all kinds, traveling (domestic international), relaxing at home, music collecting, concerts, and being around and in nature. One of my biggest passions is travel, been throughout Asia a few times and hope to start traveling throughout Europe soon and beyond. Another passion is history which ties into my travel, enjoy learning and experiencing different cultures, sites, foods and learning about those cultures. Also a big history buff on good ole U.S. history with all its pros and cons.
Born and raised in Connecticut, college in New York, and lived in a few states around the U.S. My sense of humor is a mixture of dry wit, sarcasm, and silly. I'm an introvert at first which doesn't make it easy in hopes of finding a relationship. But once you get to know me I like to feel I'm a lot of fun to be around and can make people laugh. I know when to be serious and when to be silly and fun.
Listen to mostly R'n'B and Hip-Hop, but I also enjoy Classical (DeBussy Ravel are my favs), some Rock n Pop, traditional and new Jazz/Blues, and like learning more about music from other countries.
Although it will likely never happen, one of my biggest dreams is to live in foreign country for 2-3 years or possibly the rest of my life.
I don't drink coffee, seldom drink liquor, but enjoy different teas and want to learn more about wine. Don't eat beef or pork, but do enjoy poultry and seafood, and exercise 3-4 times a week. My favorite foods are Soul food, Japanese, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Filipino, Greek, oh heck - I'll try and enjoy food from most any country.
Seeking someone with similar but not exact likes, a lady with intelligence, a strong mind, spirit, romantic, and individual thinking - not a follower of others. Hope she enjoys travel and experiencing different facets of life and the world we live. Having a good time and laughing are important -- if a lady can make me laugh and understand my somewhat strange sense of humor then I'd enjoy sharing a Jamba Juice smoothie (hahaa). :-)
Hope all is well in your world.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I was born & raised in small Midwestern farm towns, I myself am a mixture of many different ideas chosen from various sources that I have incorporated with my small town values of kindness. I have had friends from all over the world that have given me a greater understanding of the world as a whole. I attend Bay Area Social Group meet up events & Face book groups so I can merge the on-line with the real world. I can circumnavigate the the world on my own but want to have someone at my side for the trip. I've been to the Eiffel tower in Paris, walked the streets of London, looked at the world from Pike's Peak, slept under the stars of Wyoming, walked across the Golden Gate bridge, cruised the casino's of Vegas, stood at the edge of The Grand Canyon, got lost in Houston, saw Chicago from the top of the Sears tower, & visited the many waterfalls of Yosemite.
It does not matter to me what kind of career, car, or home you have as long as you are a good person at heart and are kind to people.
You are not in need of constant saving but are happy to have a guy who will spin the world backwards to for you & can make time stand still with a kiss. I want a woman who wants to share in an equal relationship with me, someone who will speak her mind and listen to others, to resolve problems. I want a woman who feels like dancing when her favorite song comes on & will sing to it when driving down the road and feel a little embarrassed when seen but responds with a smile. A woman who likes to slow dance and be held close, someone who can travel light on a trip..