Date men from United States / California / Arrowhead Farms, 43 year old

Date a man from United States. Here I go again... trying to find my "Match".
Me... Basically, I'm an easy guy to get along with. I've been told that I overly control my emotions; I rarely get mad. I'm straightforward; I try to live by one basic rule--"Do what is right". I like to keep a light feeling around me most of the time, but know when to be serious. I enjoy listening to stories of events in people's lives.
I am far from being alone. I have some great friends and trustworthy co-workers; and enjoy spending time with them. Most of my friends are a few years younger and are always shocked when they ask my age, even though I've told them before; guess I don't look or act my age :)
My faults: I tend to show my feelings for others by what I'm willing to do for them rather than through words; I don't follow sports like most men; I'm the worst person to have a verbal fight with because I usually remain silent (but am willing to discuss and debate);
My quirky dislikes: litter bugs, guys that wear baseball caps 24/7, poor drivers, text messaging codes.
You... a woman that can appreciate a man that is authentically kind and a gentleman; and understand how different that is to being meek and subservient. (I'm not a wimp, but I shouldn't have to be a jerk to earn your respect). Someone that's okay sharing personal opinions on trivial topics as well as serious topics. Able to find humor in everyday occurrences.
Please don't be offended I send you a 'wink" only; it's just to bring your attention to my profile in case I didn't show up in your searches. If you think we may be a match, send an email and we can start to find out. I should mention that I'm not looking to be a serial dater and hope to get to know each other via messages/email/phone prior to meeting.
FYI: I've been divorced over 9 years from a 2 year marriage. So it's safe to say I'm not on the rebound or have any lingering drama.