Date men from United States / California / Hughson, 43 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I'm a single dad and my kids live with me full time, plus the work thing. I do get to work out of my home so that helps a lot with the kids. I go all over the place for work but I do get home almost every night. I'm looking for someone to spend time with and start building a relationship. I'm looking for the right person for me and my family. My three kids are all getting older now, (the older two are just starting college) and I seem to have more free time for myself. Don't get me wrong they still keep me pretty busy.
I have worked at the same company for the past 17 years.
Something about me, I have no decorating skills. My friend picked out my wall paint colors, because no one has just white walls. My cousin's wife got me a mirror so that I would have something on my walls. My sister in law is always trying get me to do something. Needless to say that I live in a house that is not decorated.
So if all of that doesn't scare you off then let's see what comes next.