Date men from United States / California / West Sacramento, 43 year old

Date someone special from United States. I lead with my heart and do what is right. I love to have fun and fun can be cuddling on the couch some days and dancing until midnight on others. I love my life and I'm proud of who I am - I am part of all that I have known and my past has shaped me. I will have fun and want to share the fun and my life with someone who wants to share their life.
I have my two girls which I adore (5 & 6 years old) on a 2-2-3 schedule. I can focus on them 1/2 the week and on you the other. We have our time and we have kid time. You must love my girls and adore them too.
I'm looking for someone who has a zest for life and is thought of as the butterfly and not the wall flower at parties. I can be either and I want someone that brings out the best in me.
I want a serious long term relationship but I also want to take time to find the right person. If you are ready to get to know a fantastic guy with no time table I'm you guy.
I want to become friends first and see where it goes from there.
Honesty is a must. Brutal honesty - it can be done delicately and must be done so but complete honesty or nothing.