Date men from United States / California / Hermosa Beach, 43 year old

Date someone special from Hermosa Beach, United States. You've just read his profile and it says that he's down to earth, loves is job, likes going to the movies and the topper, he LOVES long walks on the beach!! Oh boy sounds like a keeper! No, you're not going to get that from me. After all, I just bought an awesome little house in Hermosa Beach. It comes with a clean bathroom and a fully stocked fridge. Now, you just need to bring over a good bottle of wine. How about it?
So, I like to go out occasionally, or stay home and cook pasta and several other mysterious dishes. I live a the beach, play in the city, travel to far away places, eat great food, to to live sporting events, hang out with family, read psychology books, love deep intellectual conversations and live a full life. In fact, I'm often seen going to this mysterious little place in LA that has the most amazing margaritas. I have minimized negativity from my life and only associate with people of integrity and character. I have many passions but right now it's all about live music.
So, who am I looking for? Well, you if you are attractive, fit, and down to earth. You are generally a positive person who comes from a good family. You're independent, emotionally available, and are open to new and amazing experiences.
So, tell me about YOU. What makes you so different from all the other women out there?

Meet a soulmate from Hermosa Beach, United States. I have been called a relationship guy. I won't say that I disagree. However, I am not in a rush since chemistry is either there or it isn't. It's nothing personal & must be mutual. Instead of being in a rush to find that person that we all deserve to find I am taking a different approach. There is value in every relationship that we establish from "Hello" to "I l**e you". Yes. That is Like or Love TBD.
3 key things that I have learned that I need for a great relationship are physical attraction, intellectual attraction and emotional attraction. The first two are easy and usually discovered on the first date. The third is the challenging one in that it is usually entangled with people's past, makes the present difficult and prevents a future. It takes time to be shared openly and to find safe harbor to bind two people together to take on the world.
I am obviously a hopeful romantic & while I look younger than I am on the outside I have an old soul on the inside. Like most, I find resorting to using this website to meet quality people a bit of a struggle, but hey, why not? Because we are all in such a rush in our day-to-day and often stuck in our routines I welcome the option instead of relying on friends or a chance encounter to play Matchmaker.
I am expanding my network of people that I enjoy hanging with when I am in town. I cherish the sounds of the ocean, sunsets, quality conversation and sharing life experiences. I have recently crafted a "No Drama" lifestyle. I was once very uptight, serious and rigid in life, but have learned there is happiness to be had & great value in being "Chill". I am accomplishing the goals that are important to me in my personal life and that which I feel responsible to provide for others in my professional life.
Ideally I would love to be struck speechless with a racing heart. Being open to that moment I am looking to connect with someone that enjoys a home cooked meal, going out for dinner, just chillin' on the beach or catching up over a cocktail. I already have a good group of friends, but it is always nice to meet new people one-on-one. There are so many great things to enjoy in life and let's be real for just a second...Most of them are far more enjoyable with someone else to reflect on the experience and share their unique perspective.
I am definitely not looking for a clone of me since I know my own shortcomings & perspectives. Rather I am open to learning & experiencing a different point of view. I know. Contrary to Match, but what would we learn from each other if we were the same? It is nice to be at a point in life when I know what I want and need and can truly appreciate someone that can do the same. Like many I am sure I can provide a list of dislikes, but would rather be optimistic and view the past as a continuous learning experience.
I offer a quote to close this overview that likely applies to all of us:
"More than the naked eye can see in a glance"
If I was made to encapsulate the quest into a few simple sentences I would probably say something like this:
"I would like to meet someone that inspires me, makes me feel like a silly kid again, has me grinning just by seeing her walk into a room knowing she is heading my way. Someone that is cool with having doors opened for them, chairs pulled out and knowing what crazy Starbucks version of coffee she drinks and successfully being able to order it for her."
I am taking a little time for a career and focus re-adjustment. Search Hermosavita and you can find part of my endeavor. No drama, just a little Eat, Pray, Love or whatever guys are supposed to do to that equivalent. I guess you can say I am defining my sense of purpose as opposed to letting opportunities do that for me. My goals for contributing to our world have always been bigger than those that have tried to employ me. Remember, it is all about having a "Beautiful Life". Drop in & say hi and share a story from yours.

Date a man from Hermosa Beach, United States. I tend to get along with everyone and can be the life of the party but I don't need to be. I stay physically fit with a variety of exercising.
I enjoy fine meals or a burger on the grill.
I am looking for a friend, lover, partner and hope to find this with a connection that is effortless.