Date men from United States / California / Soquel, 58 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I've been told that I am honest, kind, thoughtful, caring, sensitive, loving, passionate, sensual, spiritual with integrity and respect for others. I'm also a "goof-ball" - just ask my 11 yr old son, Jordan.
I've also reached a place in my life whereby relationships out of "need" and "lacking" are no longer. I have a daily meditative practice of "presence" and find that anything is possible. I've become a better friend, listener, and lover. As long as we both "show-up" and there is attraction, possibilities abound. And if not, nothing is loss.
Currently I am restructuring my financial life after a separation/divorce five years ago and the economic collapse. I took a beating but never felt more optimistic about my future.
I'm involved in two start-up companies and am very excited. One is a new fitness/medical model and the other is a gourmet gumbo business my son and I are doing (he's the inspiration and I'm doing all the doing). I don't care about wealth, it's how it's made and spent that is more telling.
I am attracted to someone who is comfortable with themselves, who can have discussions without inflammatory rhetoric, who's beauty and grace starts from within, who cares about the world and the suffering of others, and who will allow a grown man to weep from tenderness, gratitude, and the "good-will" between others, and, who cares about all living things.
I like to take things slowly, to insure something can be created genuine and in the moment. Let's share this dance of life one step at a time.

Meet single man from California, United States. This could be a deal breaker because I have the slightest idea how to describe myself. I strive to be a good human, raise my boys to be the same, although I'm getting alot of resistance, and walk from useless people and situations. I like to work and I like my job. It's all pretty basic, just be a good human.

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