Date women from United States / California / Los Angeles, 51 year old

Date a woman from United States. I'm originally from NYC but have been living in Los Angeles for 10 years now (wow... it goes fast). Took a little to get used to the very different culture here but think I've finally acclimated (better late than never lol). Happy with my career, friends and family are very important to me and I just fell in love with my new puppy Lily! Never will I have anyone else jump up and down and run in circles when i return home BUT I'll 'settle' for a fun, romantic man who loves dogs. I'm not asking that he jump up and down when I return home BUT... he may just find himself doing it out of reflex LOL :)

Meet someone special from United States. I'm told that I'm kind, forgiving, loving, beautiful, and a talented painter and photographer. I'm the visual artistic type, work in an art/design/academic environment during the week, paint on my days off, or travel to Central Calif, to the San Ynez wine country, where my family lives. I'm a private person. I feel comfortable being alone cause life can be a solitary thing, but I love a good story and a good laugh cause I can be way too serious!
Why do I paint? Finding beauty is a strategy for survival. I'm drawn to the edges of things, like the edge of an ocean or an edge of a forest, the place where calm and chaos collide.
About life? Give me just enough light on the next step to show me the way.
About being on this website? About change? Change itself creates fear, remember fear for what it is = uncertainty.
About silence and reflective moments, about really listening; being curious, being connected; seeing the world and relationships as a whole, putting life in separate boxes no longer serve us.
My job and my art is the number one thing in my life, right now. If someone came along to share their life with me that would be nice!

Date a soulmate from United States. I am kind, compassionate, passionate, athletic, and outgoing. I like to hold my partner's hand while walking, long kisses and bear size hugs, sharing the New York Times on Sunday mornings before heading off for a hike, bike ride or to the farmer's market. I enjoy my family, friends, skiing, cooking, movies, sporting events, concerts, traveling, volunteer work, architecture (I have taken trips just to see buildings), the beach and the mountains. I am also a news junkie.
I am interested in meeting someone who enjoys life and adventure and has a great sense of humor. Someone who lives his life to the fullest. A man who is passionate, can communicate his needs and feelings, likes to laugh, has varied interests, enjoys outdoor activities, is well read and well traveled, and can hold his own in most situations. Hopefully you like opera. If not, I will gladly participate in one of your not so desirable events if you willingly attend one or a charity event on occasion. I also like rock and roll, jazz. blues and the Dodgers!
I raised my sons and am incredibly proud of them. One just graduated college and is headed to law school the other just got married (see wedding pictures) and is attending college in D.C. after serving our country in Afghanistan.
I love life and like to have fun. I am equally comfortable in athletic wear or a little black dress and high heels!
I have traveled extensively and enjoy all the world has to offer. I have lived on both coasts. I would prefer a small beachfront hotel in Taormina or Mexico than a mega resort in Hawaii, but I know how to compromise (see opera comment above!). My life is very complete but there is definitely room for someone special. I hope to find him soon!
I enjoy long candle light dinners with music, where the conversation never ends. Reading in front of a fireplace in the winter or on a quiet beach. The idea of a long bike ride, a very long ski run (okay for hours), a hike, exploring antique stores, attending a sporting event or taking a telescope to a mountaintop to watch for shooting stars sounds great to me. It all sounds even better when adding someone who shares my enthusiasm. Looking for a kindred spirit with a sense of humor and adventure, who has a big heart and is up for new experiences.
I am looking for a best friend, who has my back as I have his, a lover for a very long term relationship, possibly forever!
Good luck to all of you in your search and enjoy the journey. If you live outside of the Los Angeles area.....please don't waste my time or yours~~~~

Meet a woman from Los Angeles, United States. I'm a funny, reliable and honest person. Youthful. I was a professional dancer in NYC. I'm very active and love to exercise. My son and I love the beach and hiking. We go to Big Sur every year as well as Palm Springs. I feel fortunate to love what I do for a living. My favorite part of being married was at the end of the day, cooking dinner, having a glass of wine and catching up on the day. I'm a happy and optimistic person and want to share it with the right person. I want to meet a man who has a great sense of humor, who feels comfortable in his own skin, who is physically active and makes a good living. No drama please. Updated pictures please.

Date someone special from Los Angeles, United States. I consider my closest friends to be the best judge(s) of my personality and character, and according to them...I'm funny and fun to be around, a good listener, fiery, spirited, quick-witted, honest, supportive, smart, caring and great with the advice. For myself, I say I am a "what you see is what you get" type of girl---no fronts, no games, and no drama. Having spent over 20 years in a marriage, I think it's safe to say that I am very much relationship material. To that end, I am very secure with myself, I know who I am, what I deserve and feel that mutual respect is KEY in any relationship. On the maintenance scale, I am on the low end of yours but on the high end of my own. I'm not a "partyer", but love a good party (be it backyard or cocktail...I'm nothing if not flexible!). I love to turn everyday moments into good memories. I am also the very proud mother of 2 wonderful grown sonsmen (19 25). While sitting still can be a challenge for me (I would rather be outdoors than in)...I still love a good movie, a good book, cooking, wine conversation, roaring fires and indoor sports.
Things that make me smile BIG:
Family, friends, good music, a good glass of red wine, ice cold beer, Cadillac margaritas, chips salsa, coffee, sunsets, beaches, the river, lakes, boating, water-skiing, sea-dooing, swimming, snow-skiing, golf courses, Angels games (from the stands, not the couch), Fridays, having something to "look forward" to, summer (favorite season), and just being in good company.
Good match qualities:
Someone who is funny, fun to be around, someone who is honest, kind, warm, loving, confident (not arrogant), affectionate, emotionally available, gentlemanly, intellectual, spontaneous, classy, knows how to dress (up or down), can settle arguments andor disagreements with respect ("inside voices" please and no name-calling), a good kisser, whose hands and butt are not smaller than my own, whose personality and heart are bigger than the income and the ego, and someone who is active with no signs of slowing down any time soon and who shares my same zest for life.
And where all of that may seem like a tall order--it's about to get taller because IРІР‚в„ўm holding out hope for the one who grows to know me better than I know myself at times, who might sometimes finish my own sentence before I do, who gets just as excited seeing my name show up on their phone as I do theirs, the one I want to talk to first thing in the morning and the last thing at night (and maybe even in between), and the one I felt like IРІР‚в„ўve known my whole life...when we just met yesterday.
"Does Match have lifetime memberships", you ask? I don't' know nor do I intend to find out, but if all of that takes a lifetime to find, I'm prepared to wait! :) And now that I've done all the talking (sorry, it happens...lol) it's your turn!

Meet a soulmate from Los Angeles, United States. No drama (PLEASE!) ... uncomplicated (if that's possible). I am low key, calm even. Looking for companionship ... someone to can hang out, watch sports, go to the movies, cook with (or for). Basically, I never met a sport I didn't like.

Date a woman from California, United States. Hi there! A couple of disclaimers: I CANNOT ANSWER WINKS. Please say, "Hello" if you're interested. AND PLEASE, HAVE A CURRENT PHOTO! For those of you who are still reading, my moniker, SweetMamaJewels, came from taking care of the people I love. I am the most loyal of friends... and desire a loving companion/intellectual equal/unbridled chemistry and silly partner in crime. Not much, I know...
I am born and bred in L.A. so I have, to coin a phrase, seen it all (Or at least a good portion of it and I'm not referring to the topography.). I'm not impressed with celebs or people who are opportunistic social climbers. I have worked in the entertainment industry in several capacities, so I've seen my share of psycho sycophants and neo-narcissists! That is not to say I am not attracted to men "in the arts," (because I am....), just men in the arts who take their craft seriously but not necessarily themselves.
I love my beautiful kids, food, art, architectural design, classical music, rock 'n roll, the blues, great literature, hiking with my dogs, working out, and especially my dear friends...For that I am most humbly grateful. Friends who'd take a bullet for me and I'd do the same for them. I love the sights and sounds of London in the '60's: The clothes, the cars....James Bond (Sean Connery, goes without sayin'), The Beatles, movies and culture from that era. Breakfast At Tiffany's; Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf; To Sir, With Love; AND cheesy Japanese monster movies. Someone just reminded me to add "Blow Up" with David Hemmings. The party scene with The Yardbirds rocks.
I love writing, and for me, words scaffold my world. Art History, ancient societies AND pop culture fascinate me. Eating healthy and exercising are both fundamentals, so finding someone who is similarly inclined is an important component. I am semi-vegetarian, pescetarian to be exact (I love seafood!) but don't mind if you are not. But full-on, non-stop carnivores, admittedly, would probably not appeal. It makes it difficult to cook for your man! I will confess to the occasional late-night pizza as a guilty pleasure...
I dig flea markets, salvage yards, vintage clothing (LOVE the '20's, the '30's, the '40's) and classic European sports cars tickle my fancy. While I love great style, it need not be designer couture. I'm just as comfy in my little black dress as in my cowboy boots and jeans. Vintage "funk with flair" works for me. I don't mind men in sweats and tennis shoes (who wouldn't, I'm not crazy!), but not on a first date please! I do love a man with a great sense of style, and again, it can be thrift shop or top-notch. Cowboy kitsch, '40's style Hollywood leading man accoutrements (oops, I forgot James Bond cooool) or classic preppy. Leather-clad rock 'n roll or a fine three piece suit.
I love the "I haven't shaved in three days" look, and beards are yummy as long as there's still a face under there somewhere. I am seeking "boyfriend material;" a thoughtful, MONOGAMOUS, FUNNY, SEXY, SMART gainfully employed man who is interested in a real relationship, not playground politics. Someone who cares about themselves and the people around them. Guys that just want a hook-up need not apply. This may be redundant, but PLEASE have a current pic available. I do! Not that I don't cherish what's on the inside more than what's on the outside, but let's face it, we all want to have a strong physical attraction. Have you gone on a date where you didn't recognize the person sitting across from you??? I have....
Contrary to the aforementioned, I really do not have a "must be included" list (other than the MONOGAMY part), but if a few of the items fit, according to Carl Jung you're made in the shade.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm a native of LA, I have 2 big dogs, and a garden with its own agenda.
I enjoy traveling to places where I don't speak the language. I'm the middle daughter of an immigrant who did the american dream with style... so my dad was the guy on the block with the weird accent. I grew up around foreign nationals, and traveled extensively as a kid. My upbringing has left me a very curious adult.
I'm a mixed breed- introvert and extrovert. My job requires me to be engaged and very present. Consequently my personal life is far quieter. I'm very selective of whom I let into that part of my life.
I'd like to meet a man who is comfortable with himself and his life. Someone with a deep sense of humor, an expansive sense of adventure, and his own set of tools.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Sept 2011-most recent pics: golf with sis and in boston with daughter (yellow/white stripe sweater) Majority of pics less than one year, a few in scrubs are winter 09., other people in pics are family or lifelong friends.
Family, friends and God are what rock my world! My life is filled with the joys of a rewarding career; the adventures of raising three incredible children, and wonderful long-lasting friendships;intertwined with my faith in God.
Embracing a new phase; time and desire for new adventures, and a special friendship/relationship. I chose not to remarry after my divorce years ago, focusing on raising my family. Not to say that I didn't enjoy beautiful romance throughout those years...simply did not fall madly, deeply or otherwise, nor did i want to "settle" for something incomplete....I've always followed my heart...
I'm not a woman who needs you to be fulfilled or happy; I am. However, at this junture in life, I want to find you.. to share a romantic, fun, supportive, monogamous, and committed relationship.
You are perfect for me...not flawless, nor am I ;) I want to love and embrace my guy with all of his quirks and idiosyncrasies...as he does me.
My oldest son graduated from law school in texas, preparing now for calif. bar. I appreciate his focus and tenacity; a fine young man. My daughter is a third yr medical student at Harvard Medical School, my youngest son pursues his passion; music:) Keyboards, guitar performance,music production. Their determination and perserverance to follow their hearts and pursue their passions is heartwarming...i'm very happy for them and proud of them.
What can you expect from me? Loyalty, Honesty, communication, a listening ear, a compassionate heart. What you see is what you get...no pretenses here. You are easy going and genuine as well. Optimistic, yet realistic. I'm bright, energetic, with a zest for life..for relationships, and in all that I do. Enjoy meeting people from all walks of life. Am socially adept,so is my guy. Although neither of us is without flaws;) We both have a sense of humor and don't get too hung up on our mutual flaws...instead we appreciate that we are each unique and we laugh!
Conservative and firm in my convictions, but as life passes I've become more open. I find myself more of a middle of the road stance. My lifestyle is simple..am happy relaxing at home, or not! Enjoy playing pool; museums, hiking, reading and cooking. Love entertaining friends as well as quiet romantic time with that special person. Music and dancing are among my favorite activities, as they might be for you.
You love sports, as a spectator and a participant. You are masculine but not cursed with a machismo attitude;) You laugh hard, but aren't ashamed to cry. You would relish simple pleasures: sunsets, thunder, candle light dinner on the patio, listening to the windchimes sing..watching the flickering flames dance in the fireplace during the winter months..holding hands, sweet kisses..
Intellectual stimulation and curiosity, physical fitness, spiritual strength and emotional stablility are essential as is the inexplicable, elusive 'chemistry'-thing.
I've been alive longer than stated above. However you wouldn't know, nor would you ask initially, if we met in the world of virtual reality right?!...
At any rate, if we do meet I think you'll forgive me, you won't be disappointed...promise:) If not, that's okay too!
"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love."
"It's at the edge of a petal that love waits"

. Well let's see .....
if you like what you read there is e-mail, write and say hi. Winking is nice but it gets nowhere quick.
I have a good sense of humor, love to have fun in and out of the house.
I'm your typical blue jeans and tee shirt kind of lady , I enjoy being out side working in my garden.
I know how to ride a horse and love to travel by car.... route 66 is scenic, but so is 70 across country. The eastern seaboard is also a favorite place to drive beautiful scenery and the food is great !
I like football and root for USC , I love it when they win the cross town boys at UCLA.
I like to fish , but someone else is baiting the hook I don't do worms...
I like to watch movies on a rainy day, walking in Griffith park.
I can play cards, love backgammon, play a game of billiards and I use to be good at darts ( it's been a while)
I love taking pictures of beautiful things and people, I don't have many photographs of myself, I'm the one behind the lens all the time.
I'm a good cook both in and out of the house. I can make Carne Assada Guatemalan style that melts in your mouth and my salsa is fresh with a gentle heat, I also do Italian proud.
I'm looking for a someone to spend my life with someone who is strong ,yet soft, playful and cuddles, passionate and a good kisser. someone who knows when his woman needs a hug and gives love freely.
Someone that will be there for both the good and bad and say it's gona be ok.
I have never cheated and I do not lie.
I'm very protective of those that I love.
I believe honesty is one of the most important qualities to a good friendship and relationship.

. I'm loving to those I love. Kind to others unless they show themselves to be themselves unkind or worse and then it's just time to walk the other way. I hate fighting, but know we all disagree from time to time. It's how we handle ourselves and our anger during those times that's important to me in that particular regard. Happy to be on my own and have been for the better part of the past 16 years so I hope a potential partner would be happy with a woman who doesn't need to be connected at the hip 24/7. Get along well with my ex & his "new families" (no pun intended!). Humor is alive and well in my household - I'm a goof with my friends and my sons, studied with the Groundlings another lifetime ago and if one doesn't possess a sense of humor with all the trials that life will offer up at the most unexpected times, well....that's too bad :(
My sons are 22 and 23, the oldest lives here most of the time, but works, goes to school and...funny; doesn't actually sleep here every single night. Hmm, wonder why that is? The other son is home from New York (just graduated from NYU) & is heading back to the city for work. We lived in Pacific Palisades for 15 years before I sold & moved to the WestwoodCentury City area, but do miss the Palisades often.
What do I want? A successful, new career, good friends, happy kids, everybody healthy, a man who either "lights me up" from the first time we meet or we find that after more time spent getting to know each other. You're successful & absolutely fine with the fact that I've gone back to school until sometime in early 2013!. I don't need your money & you most certainly don't need mine. OH! and a gentleman who appreciates a lady in blue jeans or a gorgeous gown or dress on a special occasion. I am still such a girl AND a woman...it's as if part of me is stuck at 29 and other parts of my brain every bit the woman who's lived through some difficult things, raised 2 sons (big smile), love kids and nice old people. Love great kissing, but duh, who doesn't?
If you put pictures of yourself standing in front of the mirror half naked, are a raging, far right republican without tolerance of other's views, keep on clikin' buddy. Clearly I would not be your gal.
For the most part I think it's "take me as I am and I you". Time brings change of all kinds and something that will endure truly requires that honest appreciation of the other person - their whole person. But wouldn't it be nice if after all the fireworks, etc. that a really enduring, evolving, sweet romance took two people into the rest of their lives? Good God! What's happened to me here??? I swear: I DO NOT read romance novels!
Just love seeing people of all ages happy together. The End For Now :)
Oops! One more thing...no photos...no response.

. I'm very caring and believe in treating others as you want to be treated....when I see sunflowers that makes me smilel...Looking for my best friend, someone who understands me even when he doesn't understand....does that make sense?