Date women from United States / California / Thousand Oaks, 51 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a hopless romantic who thinks there's hope.In a nutshell, I think I need a male version of myself! Strong, but sensitive, intutive and loyal.... Respect and values play a big part in my life. I'm blessed to have 2 beautiful kids, a boy and girl. One just graduated and one is going into high school. The first half of my life has been incredible and full. I'm happy with myself and what I've become. I'm looking forward to the 2nd half even more. This is where everything gets put into play....
I would want you to adore me and I would want to look up to you...I believe that actions are so much stronger than words.I love a man who respects and takes care of himself. A man who can make decisions and take control when needed is a wonderful thing. Passion is my middle name. I would like it to be your middle name as well!. I see no point in commiting yourself to something if you're not going to give it 100 percent.There's nothing wrong with knowing you have to be attracted to a person before you get to know them. I'm very much that way. Looks aren't everything, but for me, it's the start. I have to love what I'm looking at! Having mutual interests and great communication (all kinds) is an essential part of a relationship for me.Do what you say....say what you mean. I'm on this site to find a man of substance and grace...Please be considerate. Time is a precious thing to waste. Don't act all excited about wanting to meet me, get me excited about it too, and then just disappear...Not interested in dangling on a string with who knows how many other women. Not interested in childish games. I'm looking for a man who knows what he wants.
I'm pretty outgoing, with more than a sufficient amout of energy...young spirited. I work around people all the time and I work hard. I'm on my third career..My first was a professional dancer (ballerina). I have traveled a bit and still have many places that I want to see. Everything is so much better shared.... I lived in Europe (Italy) for five years...another wonderful experience..
I aim to please and I love to play. Although I have my principles,I'm not one of those people who are "set in their ways"....and I have a hard time dealing with people who are.. We can always bend, go with the flow and make acceptions...without complaining. Life, things around us change, and so do we. It's all about loving and giving back. If you have two people who do that for eachother then what more could you ask for?

Meet someone special from California, United States. I love the outdoors, especially the beach. Music, reading, and traveling are my hobbies. I like to get exercise outdoors when possible. I have three beautuful, loving, and smart daughters. Only the youngest lives with me, She is 19 and works and goes to school.I would add that I am a big fan of saving the environment ,learning new things, and treating others the way you want to be treated. Looking for a kind, outdoorsy, smart, and interesting man who loves the nature, animals, and and having fun.

Date a woman from California, United States. Its tricky to describe oneself isn't it? So who am I and what am I looking for in 1000 characters or less:
My friends describe me as: witty, intelligent, fun and adventurous. That I have a positive, zen-like attitude and am easy going. Yes, I believe in karma and living life accordingly. I am passionate about many things. I love to laugh - even at myself. I am looking to share the simple pleasures of life with for the right man.
I am an active person who enjoys sports and outdoor activities - whether it be in the gym, playing tennis, skiing or whatever sounds like fun at the moment. When I don't want to sweat, I enjoy driving through the canyons to the beach in my convertible.
Travel? Yes! I have traveled a fair amount and it only whets my appetite for more. There is a long list of places I want to visit. I enjoy a beautiful beach and warm water any place I can find it. I have had the pleasure of traveling a number of times to Australia for business a number of times. I enjoyed it so much that I've gone back there on vacation.
I'm good in the kitchen and excellent with a grill. Really enjoy good wine, good food and the fun in the preparation of it with the right person. I can't start my day without Peet's.
I am a fabulous "wing girl". I can get conversations going on all kinds of topics and have the substance to keep the dialogue going. But I digress. I'd prefer to be someone's main woman than be his date bait.
So, what is the man I'm looking for like? He'd have to be witty, have a sharp intellect, know how to have fun and be very confident in who he is and have a strong moral compass. He would like sports, travel and be adventurous. Enjoying a good laugh is a must. It would be a plus if he enjoys good food and good wine (and a good bourbon perhaps?). Could that be you?

Meet a soulmate from Thousand Oaks, United States. I am a people person. I am always helping others that I care about. I volunteer for causes that I am passionate about, to make a difference. Words to describe me would be: Caring, Intelligent, Dependable, Genuine, Kind, Thoughtful, Helpful, Loving, Silly, Happy, Fun, Warm (Ok occasionally hot), Funny, and so much more. I love to laugh. I am not a big TV person, but there are a few shows that I do enjoy. I love shows where people help others (Shark Tank, Undercover boss). I also enjoy movies that are just plan funny. Big fan of "Airplane" and goofy movies like that. Of course I love a good romantic flick, too. My kids mean the world to me, but I have a big heart that can welcome your kids, too. I have many jobs. I am a writer, a job developer/counselor for individuals with disabilities,I teach American Sign Language and I work in a classroom at en elementary school. I have been told that I am a great teacher, friend and mom. I am proud to receive those comments! I fight for what is right and have gone before groups to speak, making a difference. I believe in eating good, healthy and often organic food. Whole Foods and Trader Joe's are my friends...LOL. I've gone fishing also visiting Cupid. I am not a member here anymore.

Date someone special from Thousand Oaks, United States. I'm a Princess wanna-be who's still convinced that Prince Charming exists ... even if I am a few years past official princess age :) I believe there is a man out there who would not only rock my world in all the right ways, but also would allow me to love him absolutely.
I don't play games. I'm not a casual dater. Picking up guys in a bar isn't my style. And given all that, I'm not really sure how this whole dating things works in today's world. Baffles me.
I'm definitely a "girly-girl" and would love to have a partner in my life who recognizes and values everything that is included in that statement. I'm firmly entrenched in the mindset that says "men should be men and women should be ladies" ... maybe that makes me old-fashioned, but it is what it is :)
Somewhere in the world, there is surely a man who will capture my heart and allow me to love and cherish him ... I hope so ... if not, it's still a great life!!
I used to have a perfect answer for the whole "what are you looking for" question. I could give you a very neat list of all the attributes that would equal perfect. Then I realized that being able to check off all the items didn't make someone perfect. I threw that list away. Soooo ... the perfect man would allow me to just be who I am and accept me and all my pieces. He would laugh with me and make me laugh. He would be willing to both give and receive within the relationship. He would be gentle, but not weak. He would be confident and know who he is and who he is becoming. He would have his own life and not expect me to create that for him. He would be a gentleman and allow me to be a lady. I will never be in a relationship with someone that I could ignore ... or who could ignore me. I want that spark. I want to take someone's breath away. Wow ... this was a jumble, huh?

Meet a woman from Thousand Oaks, United States. I am affectionate, sensitive, and a very giving person. I'm a pretty shy person, until I get to know someone. I enjoy helping others and love giving gifts to others, just to make them feel good. I am very open and giving to my mate and their family. I don't like to hurt anyone's feelings and avoid confrontation whenever possible.
I love helping people and enjoy volunteering. For the past three years IРІР‚в„ўve conducted several charity events for my company which included Holiday toys Drives, Support our Troops drives and collecting clothes for the homeless.
I enjoy spending time with my close friends. I believe having a few close friends is better than having a lot of just “social networking friends”.
My favorites past times are working out, being a "mom" and Dancing (West Coast Swing, 2-step). I like to go to the beach, to concerts and being outdoors. I love romantic dinners, weekend getaways and cuddling on the couch by a warm fire. I like meeting new people and enjoy spending time with friends and family. I also like to cook, go bike riding, skiing, skating, bowling, or just stay home and make homemade crafts and decorate the house for the holidays.
What I'm looking for:
I am looking for a fun loving person, who is both honest and faithful (No players please). My perfect mate would be a person who is sensitive and caring, one who is looking for friendship as well as a relationship. I am seeking an individual who is affectionate, someone that is happy about life and has a good sense of humor. I prefer to date men that are successful business professionals and are goal oriented, but are not workaholics. I would enjoy spending time with someone who is active, enjoys staying fit, the outdoors, dancing, biking, going to the beach and taking romantic weekends get-aways.
I have two grown children that moved out but have moved back home for now.
My idea mate would be someone I could be good friends with as well as a partner in life, someone who understands that good relationships take trust, time and open communication to be successful. What IРІР‚в„ўm looking for is basically a best friend and equal partner in all aspects of life.
Deal Breakers/What IРІР‚в„ўm not looking for in a mate: Someone who would try to control me, change me or manipulate me, Someone with a lot of baggage from a previous relationship, a "Player", a person that is emotionally unavailable, a person with drug, or other type of addictions or dependencies, including smoking. A person that lies, has a lack of manners, not motivated/lazy, doesnРІР‚в„ўt work, or is smothering and obsessive.
I've been through my share of heartaches so please only respond if you are emotionally available and ready to make a fresh