Date women from United States / California / Lake Isabella, 51 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I would like to find a man who is financially stable and able to go out and enjoy life and each other. someone who is lighthearted and fun to be with. i would like to find someone who likes to do things but also enjoys staying home and relaxing. I want someone who is affectionate and not afraid of public displays of affection. Unfortunately my picture isn't the best, but when we converse a little then I can share them with you. I live with my parents to help them out. We live in lake isabella but also have a home in paso robles so we spend half the month at the lake and half the month at the coast. I also grew up in Hanford and spend alot of time there, so I'm looking in thowse areas. I enjoy the attention but don't want to waste anyones time, including my own. I love to travel and try new things, but I also enjoy a quiet night at home watching a good movie and cuddling. I am fun loving and love someone who can make me laugh. I can play pool, dance, and many other things that spark my interest. I am loyal, trustworthy, a good listener and can also convey my feelings. I enjoy being around people but crowds make me nervous. I enjoy life and want someone who can enjoy life too. I like motorcycles, sports, reading (Stephen King is my favorite), taking walks on the beach or down the street, but I have asthma so the walks can't be too long or strenuous. I want to enjoy life and am tired of being alone (12 years). I'm not a barbie doll, 'm a 51 year old mother. If you can relate I would love to hear from you.