Date women from United States / California / Larkfield, 51 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Please no Starbucks dates. Not really interested in going through the whole interview date.
Looking for a man with confidence. Don't understand the concept of winks and favorites either... interested?... send me an email. I will respond. If I say I am not interested, please don't be offended.... just don't want to waste your time or mine. I would appreciate the same in return.
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I never tire from listening to ol' blue eyes sing Moonlight Serenade. I enjoy romance and hope to someday find the man I would share this enjoyment with... I love to read and have all kinds of books scattered throughout my home - Pelican Brief, Calvin and Hobbes, Shakespeare, Mars and Venus and almost anything Hemingway. Enjoy a glass of wine and quiet nights, but occasionally make my way into the City life too.
My hair is usually kept long, no body art and wear glasses while driving. Some say I look a little like Paula Abdul or Sophia Loren, but I think of myself more like lil Annie Oakley... at least I'm her height. I am self-sufficient and am grateful for all that I have, but despite this there is a certain emptiness I feel without someone special in my life. I am a hopeful romantic and looking for somebody who knows what that means. My career allows some flexibility in relocating so, although I love the Sonoma/Marin area, I am willing to relocate for the right one. It just may take some time.
I am looking for someone who does not smoke or drink excessively. Challenge me intellectually with little words and a big heart! Words that may describe you: benevolent, dancer, romantic, affectionate and fun. Know many a great men with two left feet, so if you're not a dancer but can still manage to sweep me off my feet.... :)
Last play I saw was Phantom of the Opera... loved it, went back for more! My dream - to see the Impossible Dream - Man of La Mancha... Dulcinea.