Date men from United States / California / Campbell, 51 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. Hi and thanks for stopping by,
It’s always a little awkward to describe yourself so I asked some of my friends how they would describe me and these are some of the words they used: Funny, witty, youthful, caring, compassionate, full of life, easy going, a true “go to guy,” the one you would call in a crisis even if the crisis is just someone needing to see the positive in their current situation. While I was certainly touched by these descriptions I realize that of course they downplay any negative stuff (and let’s face it, there is some, I’m not perfect!) but also it’s important to remember that these people have known me for over 20 years. I think I tend to grow on people and that my strength lies in cultivating long-term relationships.
Now, here is how I see myself… I'm an understanding, mature but goofy, fun guy, a father of 2 girls who live with me part-time. I’m a hopeless romantic, open-minded, and have a very quick wit. I am a dork in the best sense of the word, meaning I don't take myself too seriously and if I make a fool of myself I'm ok with that! I enjoy outdoor activities and sunshine. I prefer warmth to cold and shorts to pants. I enjoy an intense workout, a good movie or sitting around with friends for conversation and a good laugh.
I'm a competitive racquetball player and train often to improve my game. I am 5'10" tall and weigh 190 lbs. I love going to the gym for daily work-outs, but wouldn’t describe myself as a gym rat. I do not drink, smoke nor do drugs. This is just a personal choice. I am not in recovery nor have I ever had an issue with any of that. To be honest I’ve never been drunk in my life, I just don’t like the way alcohol tastes.
As to the history of my bald head; I allowed my youngest daughter to shave my head in May of 2006 when she lost her hair from chemo. She battled cancer and won! She is alive and doing great, cancer free for over 3 years now. I consider my bald head a reminder of how lucky I am to have her with us.
What brings me to match? I'm looking for "true love"… that one special person that makes me light up like a Christmas tree any time I hear her voice, receive a message or spend time with her!! I want to find someone that shares my passion for life, is in a good mood most of the time, understands Seinfeld and is a very casual person. I want her to know what she wants and be confident enough to express those desires. She should want to feel secure in her man's strong arms, but be able to take care of herself as well. Ideally, she cares about her body and keeps it in good shape and she appreciates a man that does the same. I want to be with someone who loves to laugh, kiss, and make love. I am not looking for a hook-up or a one-night-stand. On the contrary, while a physical relationship is extremely important to me, I want it to be the product of a deep connection between me and the woman I care about.
I don't expect to fall in love on the first date, but hopefully we will find some middle ground where you and I share a BIG smile when we hear from one another, where sarcasm keeps us on our toes and a kiss goodbye means there will be a kiss hello in the near future.
If you’re smiling now, feel free to email me or send me a wink if you are shy. If I didn’t pique your interest then I wish you luck in your search for your "match."

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