Date women from United States / California / Santa Maria, 45 year old

Date someone special from Santa Maria, United States. I've been working since I was 10 years old. My parents taught us the value of a strong work ethic. My friends describe me as a driven person that typically accomplishes goals I set for myself. My wonderful daughter just completed her first year away at university. I keep myself busy with friends and family and now recently began studying for my real estate license which I'd like to do part-time in addition to my full-time job which is unfortunately already pretty demanding. I've always had a passion for decorating and real estate. I love music and going dancing with friends. I enjoy surrounding myself with positive people that enjoy having fun, living a healthy lifestyle, and who are also driven in life - whether it be in their careers or their personal passions.
What I am looking for? It's an odd question as I don't think of myself as someone that's really "looking" but I guess I am at a point in my life - now that my daughter is grown and starting to forge her own somewhat adult life - where I'm open to spending time with someone whose life I would compliment and who could compliment my life as well. I'm a positive and upbeat person who is very straightforward, thoughtful and pretty self sufficient. If you ask me something, I'll answer; there's no guessing with me. I suppose I appreciate those similar qualities in a partner.

Meet a soulmate from Santa Maria, United States. I am a middle aged woman trying to find someone to have fun with. I am looking for someone with ambitions and a set career. I enjoy trying new things and meeting new people. Although I was raised in the US, I am very close to my Mexican roots.

Date a woman from Santa Maria, United States. IРІР‚в„ўm a normal member of the human species with some imperfections, but with a strength of ten as well, I kid ye not! I strive to live fearlessly and not to merely see life in black-and-white. I see the many grey areas around us and try to make sense of this wonderfully weird, wacky world of ours.
Among my activities are exploring open spaces (especially the one between thy ears) and using my senses (not the one referred to as "common") optimally – like smelling cinnamon, the wetness of the earth and freshly cut grass, tasting a tear, listening to the birds' symphonic sounds at five in the morning, feeling the warmness of a loving hug and tasting the sweet in between sour.
Interests include sharing and listening, challenges that ignite the spark, theatre (including football), museums, art and galleries, computers, travel, gardening, novels and movies, amusement parksfairs, children and the vulnerable - the least, the last and the lost between us.
I'm adaptable, honest, transparent, don't hold grudges and enjoy times in the rugged outdoors as much as I do the comforts of my haven. I'm keen on animals, children and great music. And I'm not into fighting, sulking, cheating, clothing accounts, credit cards, clubbing, shopping malls or artificial nails.
I love moments that offer beauty in art, people, nature, words and actions. Huge trees, fireplaces, the moon, stars, bonfires, thunder storms, butterflies, rural places and their people and long stretched-out roads all, fascinate me with their mystique and the many stories they carry. If only they could tell!
I believe passion is probably one of the most important dimensions of the human composition – without that we are left without those dreams and aspirations that keep us going.

Meet someone special from California, United States. July 2012 Update: I had gastric bypass surgary on June 4th 2012. I month later I am 24 pounds down. I am curently looking for a workout buddy to go to the gym with. I still have a long journy ahead of me but I am excited about it. I am always ready to make a new friend. The information below still stands but my main focus right now it to get to a healthy weight and just enjoy my life. Anyone need a new workout buddy???
I am looking for someone that is honest, respectful, trustworthy, loving and down to earth. Someone who is not into playing games. Complete honesty and communication is a MUST! Life is too short to play games. I am not looking for any drama. I am human as we all are, so there is some past history in my life, but nothing that affects my future.
I do not drink or smoke nor have I ever done drugs.
With that being said, here is some information about me and what I am interested in:
I am honest, reliable, fun loving, trustworthy, caring and passionate.
I do not care for the bar scene, and am not into one night stands or casual sex. So if that is what you are looking for, please keep looking elsewhere.
I enjoy spending time with my teenager, movies either at home or at the theater, going out for dinner as well as having a nice dinner at home.
I like cooking and grilling outside (year round), I enjoy doing just about anything outdoors. I like the 80's, and most other music except rap or heavy metal.
There is so much more to me, if you would like to find out and get to know me better, send me an email.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. New to cyber dating. Hello anybody out there? : )
Hispanic
Single mom
45
Looking for drama free ltr possibly more with someone who is not a couch surfer but loves the idea of staying in and cooking a meal or bbqing together.
Please have a job and a car( having to articulate that makes me laugh) :)
Want to live your life instead of watching people live theirs on the tv.
Motorcycle a plus
Two left feet a negative
Sense of humor a requirement
Stamina a must!!!
I'm full of suprises and contradictions. I'm very open minded but I stand firm on my personal integrity and ethics.
Looking for positive attitude and someone who isn't afraid to live life and take chances.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I enjoy life to the fullest & am often told my laughter is contagious! I'm very optimistic, love equally the little things in life, as well as the big, and simply feel blessed to be here.I love my career and am grateful daily that I have a gift that is meant to be used to help others. I am driven to succeed in many ways, however my strawberry blond roots run deep, and I can't help revealing the playful little girl inside of me who simply refuses to grow up! Being too predictable can be boring anyhow ;) I've worked and played hard always yet the water has relaxed me since infancy! I'm riveted by a waterfall, will play in the bubble bath, scuba dive w/stingrays, swim hours in a pool stream or ocean. I love jumping waves on a WaveRunner & simply am passionate about life's beauty in any form. I am a genuine, caring, woman, who is insightful, intelligent, playful, intuitive, and independent, and spontaneous! I am non-judgmental & open to new things. Being playful and optimistic is in all parts of my life. At times people expect a woman with her Doctorate to be boring or snooty, but my sense of humor and carefree nature is not easily missed. I have been known to ride toys or bikes through a toy store & stir up a little trouble just for fun;)I am defiantly a kid at heart and don't take myself too seriously. Life has it's challenges, but I believe in learning from such experiences and find that laughter goes a long way. Most importantly, I believe in putting my relationships first and in taking care of those I love. I am very romantic
and enjoy a well planed date just as much as a spontaneous moment. I was raised in a close loving family, and am blessed we are all still close and caring of each other. Family values and a strong moral fiber is critical to me. I have run my own business for 22 years, while also raising two incredible children. I dont fit many stereotypes!
I am looking for a man who also loves life, and is open to honest communication and growth from all experiences . He can trust me to be there during life's challenges and feel comfortable being himself. I live life with passion & offer a great massage, heartfelt hugs, sweet kisses or an ear to listen anytime. We can allow the passion of even a hand embrace to heighten every sense & revel in any moment. He doesn't have to be perfect, because most of all we share honestly and openly! Our morals matter and together we take time for others. Trust is unconditional and never abused. Sharing anything and everything is safe and private. A partner is just that...a partner. We both love to experience life to the fullest! Communication is essential to me as is a good sense of humor! He has a calming ability to handle life's ups and downs. No drama, just solutions, compassion and a willingness to find laughter in even the toughest of situations. With my natural love of spontaneity, I would just as easily enjoy a unconventional outing as well thought out romantic date.I'm comfortable in jeans and a baseball cap, and can dress 5 star! I believe all things happen for a reason and do not fret the small things. I love traveling, scuba diving, dancing, listening to music and engaging myself fully in the experience of the moment! I will be there when you need me, and know when to offer some space! Im confident in myself and seek a partner who also is comfortable knowing his strengths and vulnerabilities. I am defiantly close to my family and I accept and embrace anyone close to you. I admire a man who not only isn't afraid of a deep conversation, but relishes the challenge of a deep conversation and even enjoys a little banter- but does NOT hit below the belt! You can trust I not going to try to change who you are, as all imperfections make life interesting!

Date someone special from United States. My closest friends will describe me as honest and loyal. My son makes me smile. I'm most proud of our acomplishments/his accomplishments in Karate Do and my volunteer work with the Dojo and our experience with Shito Ryu Karate Do. I am hoping to attract a like minded spitiual person who is into meditation and calm social life like me who enjoys watching comedy shows, eating natural foods, growing food in my garden, telling jokes, watching DVR'd movies-living a very simpliflied life.
I am most passionate about my faith in Buddhism, meditation, my martial arts practitionership and my son's rearing and a hope that someone with similar beliefs and passions will fit into that sphere of peace and harmony. I am also most greatful for my teachers who have led me to be inspired to come this far. I have helped a many people and touched and many soul (or so I have been told) to be @ such a site. But the teachers who taught me the spititual pieces that I paid forward to the individuals who gave me the complements are to whom I am paying homage. They have done well. And if there is a match for everyone out there.... then let's see; because, I'm quite a difficult bird to catch.

Meet a soulmate from United States. Im a very giving person with a very soft heart. I enjoy being around family and friends. Looking for someone to spend time with, having a nice dinner, or just enjoying a good conversation with some laughter.

Date a woman from United States. So here goes..About Me?? Just your average hard working single mom (she is away at college) looking for someone to share time with. Not into the bar scene and tired of people who want to "hook up" (really?? if that's what I wanted why would I be on-line?) I do not need a man to take care of me, rather I want one to stand beside me. One who will have a night out with the boys occassionally while I go out with the girls. My friends & family are extremely important to me, they will be hanging around! I love to have my friends over for a BBQ and would like nothing better than to have a special someone hanging around with us. Quiet time is important as well. I take a lot of pride in my home and yard. If the weeds need to be pulled..then I'm home pulling them!
I also love weekend road trips. There are so many places one can go in just a weekend. I love to find new places and things to do.
Looking for someone to share with, to laugh with and to have fun with. I know there is no "perfect" guy, and I am not perfect either. But out there is a new friend, lover, partner. I like to think that we can all have the fairy tale if we are willing to look for it :)

. I'm proudest of my children and what great adults that they have become. I'm looking for some that we can share interests and adventures. I'm ready to have someone in my life that can make me smile and laugh.