Date women from United States / California / Westchester, 45 year old

Date someone special from Westchester, United States. For 2012, I thought I'd do something adventurous and try this.
First and foremost, I'm looking for a good friend. Someone that is sincere and honest in what he really wants. Someone who understands how important communication in a relationship is and who truly in time wants a solo relationship and is not just looking for "the hookups."
I consider myself a true lady yet I can handle my own when playing with the big boys. LOL.). I am a very down to earth person....I dont believe in getting loud and I hate to argue. I enjoy movies, performing arts, watching and attending sporting events, dining out, music, comedy shows, getting out and being spontaneous, traveling and yet I also enjoy quiet evenings at home.. I'm a lady that can dress up for an elegant evening out with a gentelman or can put on active wear and go to the sports bar. And in addition to all of that, Im a hopeless romantic as well. :)
My latest interest is cardio boxing and crossfit classes.....OMG they kill me in every class but its all good and I'm determined !!
I am looking for someone that makes me smile , makes me laugh and we just enjoy spending time together. I am looking for a true gentleman. Not someone who is superficial and only looks at the outside wrapping but someone who appreciates the beautiful present inside as well. Im not out to play games with anyone and I hope that if your truly interested you wouldn't be either.
Thanks for taking the time to read what Im all about short and sweet. And if we dont connect, perhaps we can just become good friends instead.
Take care!!