Date women from United States / California / Alta Loma, 45 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Ok trying out this crazy gimmick so here goes...
I'm hoping to meet a gentleman who will treat me like the lady I am. A lady who is comfortable in a dress, rarely swears, never vulgar. I have Christian morals. I'm a great cook, I clean, I do laundry, I think my partner should make more than me. I guess I'm old fashioned..Go figure. Maybe that makes me a dinosaur? haha.
My friends tell me I'm "too nice". I'm not sure what to do with that but I guess it describes my personality a bit. I laugh often and easy. I'm not shy but not loud either. I think I'm rather open minded about most things but I do tend to take over in other peoples kitchens, oops! I love watching people enjoy themselves sometimes that's where the fun is for me in attending an event that I might not be all that into. I am quite intelligent and men are often surprised when they figure that out which actually cracks me up. I have had most of my girlfriends for 20-30 years and yes I have many. I'm a mom which makes me a worry wart sometimes. I love being a mom and I got blessed with great kids. Two boys- smart and smarter. One of my sons is a very talented athlete and we spend lots of time on that so my partner kinda has to be ok with sports. I myself was not particularly blessed with athletic ability but I do try. I'm a great cheerleader though Whoot! :). I don't have or have ever had any addictions except for chocolate and coffee. I don't want to be with someone who does drugs or smokes or anything like that. I come from a very small family so not used to a lot of drama. I have high morals, I would never cheat or lie to my partner and I expect the same. I believe in fiscal responsibility not status symbols. I can respect other peoples property and expect they respect mine. I actually try to keep the golden rule in mind "treat others as you would like to be treated". Isn't that what life is all about?
I'm looking for a LTR. I'm not really a play the field kind of person. I'm not all that comfortable with dating forever either. Blame my Christian upbringing for that if you will, but I think at some point people should commit to each other. I figure there's got to be someone out there like me. It takes two to make a relationship work and I'd like to find the guy who understands that principle. I don't have a physical type but I like to wear heels so if you are 5,9 or taller it would be preferable so I don't feel like a moose. There's really no accounting for chemistry with me sometimes so I just have to be around a person to know. I like cleanliness and manners. I find intelligence and confidence the most attractive features in a man. I would prefer a man who is secure in his employment, I know that's relative nowadays. I go to church almost every Sunday and read my Bible so I would like to meet another Christian. I don't expect someone who is perfect spiritually but rather like me someone who is a work in progress. Basically I would like to meet a decent boring guy haha, are you all married? Somehow, somewhere, I think one of you is out there and I would like to meet you.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Very passionate about my family and my job. Enjoy spending time with my kids and friends. I'm a loving and caring. Life is to short to worry about petty stuff. Live life to the fullest because your not guaranteed the next day.

Date someone special from California, United States. Just curious and looking to see what i can find. My friends tell me I'm a very likable and fun person to be around. I'm enjoying some new things that life has brought me. Divorce is never fun but you learn alot about yourself and life goes on. I'm enjoying some new and exciting things that life has brought me and I'm very much like this new chapter in my life.

Meet a soulmate from United States. I love to garden and being one with nature, riding bikes, looking at the stars, and cuddling. I am interested in meeting a good, down-to-earth person who can make me feel like one in a million. I want honesty and a person who likes to do things spare of the moment. I am very passionate about being happy, and taking one day at a time. I am a good person, friendly, outgoing and cute. I'd love to meet a romantic guy who likes to kiss, hold me tight and make me laugh. I'm girlish at heart and I like to have fun. I believe in love at first sight, and think it's important to take things slowly... or at least try to! ;) I want a man who is honest, caring, emotionally available, likes good conversation, good with children and there MUST be sparks..!! I love to give massages, cooking for those I love, and making things special. I like getting good massages, having someone run their fingers through my hair, bear hugs and long, passionate kisses... I am a true romantic at heart and extremely passionate. I'm a free spirit who doesn't like games or BS, but I do enjoy taking care of the man I love emotionally, physically and with good conversation.

Date a woman from United States. Im a loving, compassionate, caring, straight forward, easy going woman. I get the thrill out of helping others and I love to be around a crowd. Im a single parent who spends 70% of my week with my daughter.
I was single in my 20's... and did all the exploring a young person desires...!!! Now, at 45 ........ Im looking for a man who's looking for one woman to love, touch, desire, and compliment her life!!!
Im looking to meet, talk, and be friends... If a spark arises thats a blessing.. If not, I have a new friend to hang out with and talk about life's Challenges and Rewards...
WHERE IM AT CURRENTLY:
Im raising my teenager alone, here in Alta Loma. I been responsible for the well-being of my Parents for over 5yrs now, who do not reside with me. I been unemployed for over 2yrs from my last Career due to the economy. Im currently...... P/T Self-Employed as a Caregiver to a Wonderful Family. I have a hand full of great friends which I spend alot of time with. As, Im currently a Widow of 10yrs and a recent single lady of 6months, I find it hard to enjoy outings with Family and Coupled Friends.. Im not looking for a husband, but I am looking for a Man to Love.
Im not Picky, nor do I judge..!
I love all MEN, but I dont want all MEN for me..!
I would like to meet a "Man" who's secure enough in his "ManHood" where he has his own place of resisdence.
A Man who loves Woman but,......... ("Who") doesn't "Require" to "Physically Love Every Woman."
A Man who's a Provider to his family in "REASON", Wheather it be Kids, Parents, Siblings, and even Ex-Partners.. (To me this shows a quality of a man's Security...... and Im not talking "Money Security")
A Man who enjoy's Healthy/Respectful "Male Bonding" with the Fella's.. And a Man who know's All Women need time with their "Girlfriends" ....
WHAT IM LOOKING FOR:
Im looking to get out Date, Hang-Out, Be Friends, and Hopefully some Romance ... Im not looking for a Pen-Pal, Serial Texter, or an "All Nite" "Phone Chatter" ......
If, What ....... You have Read ....... Has made you Curious, "About Me".....
I would LOVE to hear from you..
HOW I SPEND MY WEEK:
I work 9-1pm or 10-2pm, I hike twice a week at Claremont Hills "The Loop" with a friend, I walk up Archibald once a week with a neighbor, I love "Taco Tuesday" at McAllens Alta Loma or Zendajas Rancho Cucamonga, I go to the movies, Dave and Buster, Dinner, Lunch, an Occasional Weekly Bike Ride with my Daughter, Visit Family, and Date ....
BOOKS: Not much of a reader..... Im most interested in TRUE Stories, History, Biographies, etc.
MUSIC: Classic Rock , Jazz, Blues, Old School 80's Jams .....
MOVIES: Jaws, Dogs Day Afternoon, Kramer vs Kramer, SugarLand Express, The Rose, Justice 4 All, OverBoard, Rush Hour, Chicago, Military Movies.....

Meet someone special from United States. I am real, wholesome, and funny (I think). Simplicity is sophisticated and I strive to make things simple without being simple-minded. That means automatic light switches are the bomb! I'm ambitious, smart, and try not to show off too much because no matter what a person has, there's always someone with more. So while I prefer people who are like-minded in this area, having compassion makes one even more admirable.