Date women from United States / California / Bermuda Dunes, 45 year old

Date someone special from Bermuda Dunes, United States. Hmmm...About me, ardent, attractive, outgoing, divorced, single mom, living in the sunny desert...I am what you would call a free spirit and I dont sweat the small stuff. I enjoy life and live it!! Healthy body(GYM at least 4-5 days/week) and mind(most of the time.) ...I am brutally honest, loyal and very affectionate. Weekends are filled with family, friends, running, gym, spinning,hiking and looking for some trouble to get into. I need a partner in crime!!! "ideal match" is there such a thing? Well, I would say attractive(to me), successful, aggressive, athletic, quick wit(need it with my mind.) and maybe just a lil mysterious. I am not as spoiled (only child thing) as I once was, having 2 children(20 and 5 ) kind of took care of that for me! I would like to find someone who is HONEST, thoughtful, affectionate, loyal, patient and enjoys being a little nutty, can wear a suit, or jeans and white t and look yummy...Asking for too much ,probably, but what the heck?! Thank you for taking the time to read this!
ps. I am not a 1 nite stand person, so if that is your motive..BEAT IT(AND I MEAN THAT IN ONLY THE NICEST WAY) !