Date women from United States / California / San Dimas, 45 year old

Date someone special from San Dimas, United States. Looking forward to the day I get to cancel this account. Until then, here I am!
Who am I? Successful, motivated, kind, fun, curious, driven and according to audiences and friends a personality packed riot.
I have my own company, which allows me to travel the world keynote and feature speaking at technology conferences. I get to entertain and educate hundreds of thousands of people every year. It is an enjoyable and rewarding experience. It also provides me a flexible schedule, which I take full advantage of. When I am home I can usually be found on the golf course (I have a bit of a game), collecting and drinking wine while eating great meals with friends or taking in all of the things Southern California has to offer. Unlike other profiles, this one will unabashedly admit that the writer of this profile actually does enjoy sitting on the sofa watching TV occasionally. I blame modern cartoons and cooking competition shows.
I live life by the golden rule and hope you do as well. I have unfortunately met some people from this service who were not who they claimed as well as met some great people who I wish I had more chemistry with. It really gets down to chemistry. Something you cannot get a feel of by reading text and looking at photos.
What am I looking for? I am looking for that great guy that a carry a conversation, is witty, funny, smart, kind, honest, successful and adventurous. It would be great to meet a fellow golfer and / or oenophile.
Lastly, I do not understand profiles that do not invite winks. Why not? I consider it a compliment when someone is interested in me. I can always wink back or email. I just don't get it. Maybe someone can educate me as to why you they are not a fan of them. Either way, all the best here and here is hoping for great results.