Date women from United States / California / Yucaipa, 45 year old
Date a soulmate from California, United States. USMC, LAPD, and now CSR...Always looking for a challenge.
I can't be that bad if my ex-husband of 23 years who has married a few times can still tell me I am the best woman he ever had and regrets not appreciating me when he had me.
I know I live a bit out of the way, but it weeds out those looking for something just quick and easy, so it actually is kind of a blessing. I am fine with driving wherever. I do it for work, so why not for you. Many of you are looking for someone no more than ten minutes away. Well, I happen to think some things are just worth the extra effort. It's not like you would see me every day anyway, so what's the big deal that I don't live in your city?
I have returned from my vacation to Australia, and it was fantabulous. I will go there again, and I won't wait seven years to do it. Vacationing alone was a great experience and I recommend it.
I never thought it would be so difficult to find that special someone, but at the same time I can appreciate it. I am older and wiser and know what I want. I do know how to have fun, but with the life I have lived I have not been exposed to as much as you probably have -- example, I have been to one concert.
I am looking forward to seeing what new adventures you can bring into my life and me into your life. :)
Don't send me e-mails asking if I would be interested in FWB. That is not what I am looking for. I can tell you I do not want someone newly divorced or someone who is separated, and please don't try to hide those things from me. I don't like when people take my choices away from me. :( If you are not serious, please do not waste my time. I have had enough of the games and I see through them immediately and I will call you on it.
Relationships take time, but since we live in such a fast-paced world people seem to be looking for instant relationships -- love at first sight. I don't believe in that. I know it is not possible to know everything about your partner, but in my line of work I get to see firsthand how very little people know about those closest to them. Maybe in that sense I am old-fashioned. I want to know you and for you to know me.
What am I looking for -- a man with class and integrity, confidence, not arrogance, intelligence, a sense of humor, honest and open with a good heart. Someone who can laugh at himself is a plus, and if you can make me laugh, brownie points. The list goes on, but I will see what your profile has to say.
Meet someone special from California, United States. First and foremost: sense of humor is essential! Life is short and I believe we should try to enjoy each and every day we have. Appreciate the simple things and donРІР‚в„ўt take yourself too seriously. Of course I can be serious when the situation calls for it, but I really prefer to lighten up and have a good time!
So, is it just me or does it seem like the more profiles you read the more they all start to sound the same? I guess we all tend to write things pretty generic so as not to turn anyone off (you know, keep our options open). But seriously, if I see one more profile that incorporates the phrase “work hard, play harder” I’m going to scream (or cry, not sure which). And why do so many guys feel the need to post pictures of themselves with no shirt on? What’s that all about?
Yes, I too have been guilty of the generic profile text. That’s why I am rewriting mine now. I am a unique individual and I want you to know that! Something I’ve noticed is that lots of guys on this site say they “know how to treat a lady”. That’s nice, but I don’t really need or want to be treated like a lady. I want to be treated like a friend – with kindness, honesty, loyalty, compassion and respect. I’m not a crazy women’s-libber or anything, I just like to be able to go out and have a good time with someone and enjoy each other’s company without any concern for silly dating rules like who opens the door for whom (how about whoever happens to get to the door first holds it open for the other?).
I really am not like most women out there. In fact, I sometimes find it hard to find women friends who I can relate to and who I have things in common with. It seems they are all into shopping for shoes or the latest fashions, spending big bucks having their hair nails done at the salon, or talking about whatever reality show was on last night (America’s Talented Whatever, Real Housewives of Wherever…). I really have no interest in any of that. I admit I’m a bit of a Tom Boy. I enjoy the outdoors, riding horses, playing with my dogs, working in the yard, etc. and am not afraid to get a little dirt under my nails. I don’t go to the gym because I find it boring and I don’t have that kind of time anyway. I stay fit by living my life, eating healthy and not being lazy. I don't dye my hair (I am rockin' the greys), all of my body parts are original, and my teeth are their natural color (no freakishly white, glow-in-the-dark teeth here). I do maintain good personal hygiene however, and I take care of myself and my appearance. I just prefer to “keep it real” and don’t feel the need to try to impress anyone. I'm a very down to earth, laid back type of person who enjoys the simple things in life and am very comfortable just being myself. I want people to like me for the person I am, not the person I pretend to be. With me, what you see is what you get.
I would love to meet someone who is smart, funny, makes me laugh and is fun to be around. Ideally someone with a good balance of having the maturity to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, yet still thinks farts are funny. I love to laugh and feel a sense of humor is very important. I believe emotions are contagious and like to be around happy, fun-loving people. I am extremely open, honest and considerate of other people's feelings. I always try to treat others the way I would want to be treated.
Now, I wonder how many people I turned off with this profile text. That’s okay, they aren’t the ones I want to meet anyway…..
Date a woman from California, United States. On amazing days when goals are reached and or new ones set, I want to have someone special to share my accomplishes with. I'm very passionate about my career and a professional organization I am actively involved in. I approach everything with that same "all-in" attitude including my relationships. I'm looking for someone who will allow me to love them with my whole being and in return do the same. Life shouldn't be so complicated. I want someone to miss me when we're apart and genuinely look forward to the next time we're together. I guess that's what "all-in" means to me. Someone who would enjoy an active lifestyle with me...yeah, I don't sit on the sidelines well. I like to play too. I like to smile and be around happy people.
I love the Lord with all my heart, worship Him daily, and try to allow His love to shine through me. I am looking for someone who shares that same love for the Lord but isn't judgmental or...boring? Does that make sense? Let me try to break it down a little...I'm looking for someone with just the right amount of hypocrisy. That should make perfect sense to my true Match.
Is there someone equally driven who seeks a confident woman that they can enjoy intellectually stimulating conversations with as well as playful moments, adventures, spontaneity, quiet times, and of course goofy ones as well (and doesn't mind run on sentences)? I'm a very successful business women and take care of myself and I don't need a man to "save" me. I want a partner, a lover, a friend. Ok, not in that order! I shared a pic on my FB of a hot girl wearing a crown with the caption: "I'm not a princess, I'm a Queen. I don't need saving. I got this S--- handled!" I don't usually curse (only when I golf or snowboard) but the pic spoke volumes to me. While I don't quite feel like the queen in the pic I get the message. I'm not on pedestal, nor do I want to be; I'm not helpless but enjoy chivalry; and believe that a man can make a women feel like a princess without being demeaning.
I have three fabulous kids (18, 14, 12) who keep me grounded. They live with me most of the time and spend Wednesday evenings and every other weekend with their dad. I would have the most in common with men who also have kids but don't expect to meet mine any time soon. It's a mom thing. ;-)
I enjoy golfing, fishing, wakeboarding and pretty much any sport with a ball or board. I'm not big on old fashion "exercise" but LOVE to play anything. I recently started running and to my surprise, I'm hooked! I'm not wicked fast or anything and I'm only up to 3.7 miles--not all running ! Some girlfriends and I decided to step up and train for Tinkerbell's half marathon in January. Should be fun...at least as much fun as 13 miles can be.
Meet a soulmate from Yucaipa, United States. I'm a mother of four grown children, two which still lives with me. I'm attending Crafton Hills College trying to get my certificate in child care. Just moved to the area about a year ago and don't know to many people.
Date someone special from Yucaipa, United States. I've been a legal secretary for 12 years and previously a travel agent for 10 years. Currently doing some soul searching because I don't think I am in the career that is my passion. I believe the right opportunity will come to me in good time.
I try to walk or go bike riding every day and eat healthy. Although, sorry guys, I will never be a size 4 or skin and bones. Some of my past adventures are bungie jumping and going to Jamaica or Hawaii for the weekend, always seeking out new adventures and places. Roller Coasters!! This week for my birthday-- SIX FLAGS - OH YES!!!
Looking for a man I can laugh with, cry with, be silly with, have an intriguing conversation with, share life's ups and downs with, someone who is my best friend. If you want to constantly complain about your ex, I'm not the one for you. No drug users...even if "it's just pot", I am not interested. I speak my mind, mean what I say and say what I mean. If you are honest and communicate with me, you've got a very good start. I love all kinds of music depending on my mood. Everything from 80's, Beatles, classical, some country, Classic Rock. No Rap music! So take a chance and drop a line or message me if interested. Oh...and I love all animals- dogs rock!
Meet a woman from Yucaipa, United States. I am on the prowl for that special someone whom enjoys the simple things in life. I can be just as happy making dinner together as I am going out for dinner. I love spontaneity......and simple surprises as well as I love giving them. I don't beat around the bush or play games and I know what I want out of life. Please, be the same.
