Date women from United States / California / San Luis Obispo, 57 year old

Date someone special from San Luis Obispo, United States. Looking for someone who is confident with who you are and where you are in your own life (self assured) successful, strong but kind, tender and affectionate, looking for love.... Your age is just a number and doesn't matter to (my age should not matter) me if you are young at heart and mind and take care of yourself. You could be 45 and old or 65 and young. I think I will stay 51 for as long as I can, a very good age!!! Financially secure (considering the economy) own my own home and can do pretty much what I want.
I Love to laugh and have fun. I am vivacious, attractive, a great friend, good listener, fun loving, pretty easy going, outgoing and hardworking and very fit and slender (I think) in all the right places. I have lots of energy and like to keep busy and try new things-love to go dancing but can also enjoy staying home cooking a nice dinner for two enjoying some wine and a movie, very casual. Looking for someone who has similar values and goals and enjoys what they do for a living. Are you the wonderful man that I can share quality time with? I think we will know after a conversation or two and a possible meeting.
Start with friendship, but ultimately looking for a lifelong partner without necessarily having to be married, someone to grow old with-NO- I mean grow young with. Let's not let the all important question be, Can I live with this person for the rest of my life? Try instead, Can this person and I benefit from some time together? Have some adventures whether here on the central coast or traveling to Spain, Italy, Avila Beach or who knows where...... A quality relationship.......
If your the right guy, all the pieces will fall into place.

Meet a soulmate from San Luis Obispo, United States. Legends say that hummingbirds float free of time, carrying our hopes for love, joy and celebration. The hummingburd's delicate grace reminds us that life is rich, beauty is everywhere, every personal connection has meaning and that laughter is life's sweetest creation.
Hi! I'm Jan! I a little stumped what to say about myself. Happy, healthy, emotionally prepared to meet someone special. I have lived in San Luis Obispo most of my lifetime and feel grateful to still be here! Married once, divorced once, single now about ten years. Oh, yes I've had a long term relationship inbetween all of that.
I would say that I am approachable, genuinely happy, active but not extreme by any means, likable, friendly, sometimes shy, sometimes not! I love to travel. I enjoy many outdoor activities and willing to try new and adventurous times as long as I feel safe!
Looking for that mutual chemistry and I can't give a physical description but we need to be attracted to each other.
If you think you would like to correspond please send me an email. I don't mind winks but prefer a nice note. Please have a photo or be prepared to email a recent one.
Thank you!